ooopnut4 Posted July 29, 2008 Posted July 29, 2008 do people ever get left for someone else and then they come back? Or do they ever even call? Any stories would be great to hear thanks
nopainnogain Posted July 29, 2008 Posted July 29, 2008 Sometimes they do sometimes they dont. Now you see them, now you don't, some ppls be here for the moment, and then they gone, what happened to em? Well let's see, it seems to be a mystery But all I know I never let the money get to me Stay loveshack to the fullest until I check out this bit*h, I thought you knew this
Just Visiting Posted July 29, 2008 Posted July 29, 2008 Don't hold your breath on this one. Some do and some don't. For the ones that do, it usually does not last and then it is over again.
Dharmaa Posted July 29, 2008 Posted July 29, 2008 I noticed about 10 years ago that if they can find you they ALL come back around sooner or later but I never let them past the front door because if they would do it once they would do it again. Besides, it is RUDE showing up at the door without calling first, especially after you have been a dog. Sometimes it's two weeks later and other times it's been six to seven months later.
HeatherAngel Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 Really Dharmaa?? You think they ALWAYS come round? That thought could give some of us here some hope. Whether we want them back then or not. I think in my case - he isn't.
wareagle Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 My ex came back time after time after time when she realized the grass wasn't always greener on the other side and my dumbass took her back everytime, even after she slept with someone less than a week after she left me!! So yes some do some don't just depends on the person and how ****ed up they are in the head!! Like one of the above posters said, rarely do second chances ever work out! Best to chalk up your losses and move on!!
Rooster_DAR Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 Yes. I just posted a new thread about it. My Ex fiance cheated on me almost 2 years ago, I left her a$$ and gave up on her. She has called me twice in the past month, both of which I promptly ignore. I would surmise that many of them try to make contact again, either by guilt or realize the really screwed up. Cheers!
Crestfallen_KH Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 Nope, not in my case. My ex-husband fell for a married co-worker within two weeks (who was also married). We separated shortly thereafter, and he moved in with her. It's been almost a year since that happened and it appears that they are still together. He's never once contacted me to ask for a second chance.
Rooster_DAR Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 Nope, not in my case. My ex-husband fell for a married co-worker within two weeks (who was also married). We separated shortly thereafter, and he moved in with her. It's been almost a year since that happened and it appears that they are still together. He's never once contacted me to ask for a second chance. That if fu**ed up, sorry to hear that.
WiseOne1 Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 My first love along time ago, i was soooo crazy about her. She called alot, she would say she never wanted to talk to me again, but she called every 3 months and would act like she wanted me back, and then she just left again, because another guy came along. And my most current ex, me and her got back together 2 times, the second time it lasted for 7 months.
Rooster_DAR Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 Yup...that is usually the case. Once it's over, it's over. They will come back sniffing around, but if you give in you will wind up in the same place again. Best move on and find someone else. Cheers!
sedgwick Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 Some of mine have come back, some haven't. The two who haven't are people I don't care to know any longer. One was really abusive, so I'm quite happy never to hear from him again and would ignore him if he attempted to contact me. The other is married now, and it's been 7 years, so I doubt I'll hear from him again either. It doesn't matter. I'm over them. The love of my life (prior to the current one) came back after 12 years and I realized how happy I was we weren't together anymore. I've had one breakup in my life where we did get back together after a year, but we broke up again a few months later, due mostly to the fact that it was long distance and there was no chance of it changing. We're still good friends though.
Ormolu611 Posted August 2, 2008 Posted August 2, 2008 Well, i have wondered this recently myself. My ex of 10 years left me almost a year and a half ago and I have heard nothing from her...nary a peep. The last time I saw her we left each other without any cerimony or special words or anything. Then "poof" she dissappeared....after 10 years together. At first, i was flabbergasted about how she could do that, but now, I don't really care too much. I know that she is still in town, but that is about all. I purposefully avoid gleaning any information about her activities or anything. Solid no contact since then. If she does not contact me, I certainly will never contact her in this lifetime, and I feel confident about that. She had been unhappy for almost 2 years before she left. We just couldn't work out our issues...or she couldn't work out hers in my opinion. At any rate, I get curious sometimes, and I still wonder if she will ever make contact again - but curiosity is the only reason I am proud to say.
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