Author ioncebelieved Posted August 6, 2008 Author Posted August 6, 2008 Same here... early on she had some breakdowns that gave me the idea of cutting off everything before I got attached. Instead I tried my hardest to make everything work. After a while I changed and lost myself in her. Then she threw me away. I tried everything to fix it, once I stopped trying (aka: begging, questioning, and basically harassing her) we never spoke again. I regret everything I did. I wish once she said "I want a break" I had just gotten up and never spoken to her again, which is what I plan to do in every relationship from now on. Now I'm a different person, and I don't believe I'm as nice as I once one. Instead of trying hard to please everyone else I've become more self-absorbed. I enjoy being reclusive much more than I used to. Was it worth it?....well I can't tell you to be sure WOW!!! That sounds just like I wrote it! I am just like you are. I did the same things as you and I lost myself in her as well. I am right there with you as far as not being nice goes. It becomes a time you are so focused on the other person, you forget everything around you.
Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted August 6, 2008 Posted August 6, 2008 yeh ii am doing my best but ii feel like at the same time i am not doing anything...because my bfs attitude makes me change my mind about even trying....
kizik Posted August 6, 2008 Posted August 6, 2008 We got suckered by beauty. I bet your ex was hot. Actually my man, she was cute and petite, but not hot. She was merely someone I had known for many years, someone who expressed interest in me. Her attractiveness became less as her sh*tty personality came through more, over the years. In the future I will not rush into a R, because of being tired of being alone.
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