Mfaust Posted July 29, 2008 Posted July 29, 2008 the girl I love is about to get on a plane to be with another man. should I got to the airport and try to stop her, I know she still loves me
AdrianaLima Posted July 29, 2008 Posted July 29, 2008 You should. You most definitely shouldn't be on here. Hurry up before it's too late.
quankanne Posted July 29, 2008 Posted July 29, 2008 if you're sure of your love for each other and she's more or less free to pursue a relationship with you, go! however, if she's like engaged to this man or serious about him, let her go. Because she's already made her decision ..
Katherineos123 Posted July 29, 2008 Posted July 29, 2008 Im pretty sure I saw this in a movie somewhere... Cant quite seem to put my finger on it... No seriously though. Thats incredibly romantic, and if she still loves you, she's an idiot if she doesnt give you another shot. I hope it all works out for you. Keep us posted!
Author Mfaust Posted August 4, 2008 Author Posted August 4, 2008 Hmmm. well to tell you how it went. I drove 3 hours to the airport and could not find her. I called her mom and it turned out she left out of a local smaller airport. Not sure one thing has worked out for me in life this far why would it now. We dated for 6 years before she left me for this guy who she meet on a video game world of warcraft. When I said she still loves me, I know she does. Its been less then 2 months sence she left me and 3 sence she meet him. I'll just let her go, I'm doing not contact for at least 4 months. I feel like I should do something more because of how much I love her but I can not make her want me. I hope she doesnt regret this, though she might not the new guy is almost just like me(i've talked to him) but he makes more money. I cant believe that. But she was rasied rich and was always giving everything and I couldnt but I am going to school so if she would have waited for me I would have loved her my whole life no question. The real ****ty part is i've had to move back into my dads because I could not afford our apartment(not like I would want to stay there anyway) and I have no friends what so ever. I got rid of all my friends because of her. All I have is her family and I dont want to talk to them that much 1. becaues they remind me of how awesome it use to be and 2. I'm trying not to talk to her so I cant call there when she gets back in a week because she will anwser. Oh well shes making plans to live with this guy 3k miles away so she will leave soon anyway forever. 6 years. Thats almost 1/3 of my life and I was going to ask her to marry me last month.
JooLee Posted August 4, 2008 Posted August 4, 2008 damn! that is really bad! i can jus imagine how tough it is. why cant God just make us fall in love with one person which is our soul mate and it would be happily ever after. it would def save us a lot of heart ache and pain. i hate love! it ****s you up!
motive2002 Posted August 4, 2008 Posted August 4, 2008 why cant God just make us fall in love with one person which is our soul mate and it would be happily ever after. it would def save us a lot of heart ache and pain. I hear that.
Tony T Posted August 4, 2008 Posted August 4, 2008 the girl I love is about to get on a plane to be with another man. should I got to the airport and try to stop her, I know she still loves me Don't even waste your time. You've got it all wrong about her still loving you. She wouldn't be flying to see somebody else if her feelings were all that strong for you, especially if she knows you still care about her. This is one you should write off. Why would you want a relationship with a female who is off to the races so quickly after some disagreement. If she really loved you, she'd want to work it out. She's a flake for now...let her fly the friendly skies.
Author Mfaust Posted August 12, 2008 Author Posted August 12, 2008 Well she's engaged to him now. Does love really work that fast? they have been together almost 2 months now and shes moving out there in a month. The marriage is set for a year from now. Insane, I think. The thing is I'm doing no contact and is been 14 days so far and most of that she has been gone. She just started texting me. So far four times. Once about a camera and three times about why am i ignoring her. Should I tell her that i'm not going to talk to her or just let it keep on going. It almost kills me everytime she texts me
tinke Posted August 13, 2008 Posted August 13, 2008 It seems pointless to answer her text, furthermore, I would find it upsetting that she believes she can devastate you and continue to keep contacting you for her satisfaction. Seems she has made up her mind and taking off with him. I don't know, I myself have never believed love can form so quickly...and to lead to a marriage date? Has she spent any time with him? As painful as it may be, it may be in YOUR best interest to ignore her texts and move towards healing. I am sure you had made your love clear to her earlier, so she is aware. NO, I would not give her the satisfaction of knowing a reason for you not responding..just do it. She gave up that chance to contact you at will when she left. At this point, you don't owe her a thing. Seems harsh, but...if she wanted you, I would think she would have called you before her flight just to get a feel of where you stood. It still amazes me how some can just take off without any awareness of the pain caused...I don't see the gain by her contacting you.
0hpenelope Posted August 13, 2008 Posted August 13, 2008 Well she's engaged to him now. Does love really work that fast? they have been together almost 2 months now and shes moving out there in a month. The marriage is set for a year from now. Insane, I think. The thing is I'm doing no contact and is been 14 days so far and most of that she has been gone. She just started texting me. So far four times. Once about a camera and three times about why am i ignoring her. Should I tell her that i'm not going to talk to her or just let it keep on going. It almost kills me everytime she texts me Ignore. Ignore, ignore. Going back to feeling that pain is not, not worth it. You should read fox1234's experience. It's been one heck of a ride for him.
CaliGuy Posted August 13, 2008 Posted August 13, 2008 Well she's engaged to him now. Does love really work that fast? they have been together almost 2 months now and shes moving out there in a month. The marriage is set for a year from now. Insane, I think. The thing is I'm doing no contact and is been 14 days so far and most of that she has been gone. She just started texting me. So far four times. Once about a camera and three times about why am i ignoring her. Should I tell her that i'm not going to talk to her or just let it keep on going. It almost kills me everytime she texts me Ignore. Keep the camera if you want. She can buy another if she wants. You keep your chin up. There's someone better out there for you. And she's a fool for rushing into a marriage. She'll find that out soon enough.
nowhereman82 Posted August 13, 2008 Posted August 13, 2008 Ouch world of warcraft.... stay away dude, she left you long before you knew it. I used that game to escape as a lot of people do. I have been off that game and games for a long while now. She has issues to work on...stay away. Tough answer but the truth. I even know chicks that have moved cross country to do that. She isn't coming back unless **** doesn't work out there...and guess who she is coming back to? Don't let her do that to ya bro
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