purplepoodle Posted July 29, 2008 Posted July 29, 2008 My ex and I have been broken up for 5 months now.We went 3 months NC then started talking again off and on. He has already met another girl and is enaged to her now. Whenever we talk he only wants to discuss one thing and it's about something that is lacking in his new relationship. It's breaking my heart, but during our relationship he was there for me through tough times. Am I being used here or could he genuinely want to be friends?
northstar1 Posted July 29, 2008 Posted July 29, 2008 My ex and I have been broken up for 5 months now.We went 3 months NC then started talking again off and on. He has already met another girl and is enaged to her now. Whenever we talk he only wants to discuss one thing and it's about something that is lacking in his new relationship. It's breaking my heart, but during our relationship he was there for me through tough times. Am I being used here or could he genuinely want to be friends? If you are upset over this news (and who woudn't be), then it's too early to be friends. I would honestly tell him you are not ready to be friends yet, and go back to NC until you can speak with him and be unaffected by his life - and that could take months, or years.
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