bla bla bla Posted July 28, 2008 Posted July 28, 2008 ok well i have never really been into the whole dating thing/never had a GF but there is this one girl i like n school. the thing is it is summer so i cant really talk to her. but i have messaged her through myspace so she does no me kind of but anyways i want to ask her out or go some were with her but dont no what to say bty i am 17
tm83 Posted July 28, 2008 Posted July 28, 2008 well ive found the best way is to just ask her. think of something for you two to do and ask her if she wants to do it such as "hey how bout we go see a movie fri night" or "lets go to dinner on fri night". be direct and let her know your intentions, dont pussy foot around when asking her. but let her know that you have a plan of some kind for what you will be doing without going into detail about it. even if it is the most simple plan for a date ever, she wants to know that you know what you want to do. dont be long and drawn out but dont make it a one liner either. maybe start with something about how you really want to get to know her better or that you have always thought she is a really cool girl. the most important thing is to just suck it up and do it!
Author bla bla bla Posted July 28, 2008 Author Posted July 28, 2008 ya but idk were to go that is the thing i dont want to go to the movies cause u talk on the drive there the talk the way back so u talk for like 20 mins out of the 2-3 hours u were together. what else is there to do i would like to get to no her
Author bla bla bla Posted July 28, 2008 Author Posted July 28, 2008 come on ppl post anything i dont care what u say
tm83 Posted July 28, 2008 Posted July 28, 2008 there are always things to do other than movies. dinner, coffee, a walk in the park, go see a play, art gallery, just find something interesting where you can be interactive with her. if you cant think of anything look on your cities website for some suggestions, most decent size cities now have websites that usually list local attractions.
Author bla bla bla Posted July 30, 2008 Author Posted July 30, 2008 i was going to mess her today to see if she wanted to go hang out. went through my friends list to find her, couldnt she removed me idk y but should i try to add her back or was that a......
pioi Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 If she's pulling back you have to pull back too, or else you become needy and desperate which is an instant turn off for women. Pull back meet new people, and she'll come back to you eventually.
Author bla bla bla Posted July 31, 2008 Author Posted July 31, 2008 i want to but i think she is going to go out with one of my good friends and he is the biggest man hoor and she is a good girl
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