loveinlife Posted July 28, 2008 Posted July 28, 2008 how can i feel better? The girl i've been dating is on a vacation with her fam, hanging out a lot with her guy cousin and her cousin's friend whom likes her. She even slept over a night at his house while her cousin was there because she and her cousin got wasted there.(Her story) A few weeks ago, she was gonna go on a camping trip with some guy and a bunch of his guy friends, but later canceled bc he couldn't make it. (her story) She still uses her exbf's cell phone plan. I dunno if she is doing something behind my back... how can i start building that trust? or is it normal to feel this way with the premises i listed?
silvergirl Posted July 28, 2008 Posted July 28, 2008 Well, first off, I have a few questions, this will help in my response. 1. How long have you two been dating? 2. How old are you all? 3. Are you mutual friends with her "guy" friends?
Author loveinlife Posted July 28, 2008 Author Posted July 28, 2008 Well, first off, I have a few questions, this will help in my response. 1. How long have you two been dating? 2. How old are you all? 3. Are you mutual friends with her "guy" friends? Hi Silver, Here are the answers to your questions, thanks for asking, feels good that you want to hear it. 1. 4 months, met her when she didn't officially broke up with her 7 year long term relationship. They broke up and we started seeing each other, dating intimately a month later. 2. Im 27 and she is 24. 3. The guy is not a mutual friend of ours. She told me that he likes her and asked if it was okay for her to hang out with him since the cousin, whom she is with all the time, hangs out with this guy friend. After she slept over a night over there, I confronted her about it; she said he is just a cool friend and an acquientance, nothing intimate. I saw her posted her Myspace pics with him in it and i just dunno how to react.. they were sitting side by side together at a concert.. spending time the whole day drinking with her sisters fam and her guy cousin.. she called him a drinking partner. =/ thanks for listening
silvergirl Posted July 28, 2008 Posted July 28, 2008 Are you two in a committed relationship? Personally, it sounds to me like she's playing you for a fool. It is very rare for guys and girls to be able to just be friends, and when drinking is involved, all kinds of things can happen. I think you need to ask yourself, how much you like this girl, and if you really want to make things work with her. Have you talked to her about you being uncomfortable with her guy friends? If you have, and she doesn't care then it's her loss, move on.
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