loveinlife Posted July 28, 2008 Posted July 28, 2008 just wondering the time frame it took you to fall in love.. and also when did you learn to trust them?
awesomeness43 Posted July 28, 2008 Posted July 28, 2008 Weird... ive been with quite a few girls before and have not been in love regardless of how long ive know them/been with them. My current gf was like instant attraction and we hit it off and connected. I guess we both felt it about a month in but thought it was too early to use it until it just slipped out subconsciously. It really depends on the person and the strength of the relationship.
Author loveinlife Posted July 28, 2008 Author Posted July 28, 2008 Weird... ive been with quite a few girls before and have not been in love regardless of how long ive know them/been with them. My current gf was like instant attraction and we hit it off and connected. I guess we both felt it about a month in but thought it was too early to use it until it just slipped out subconsciously. It really depends on the person and the strength of the relationship. Im glad that its working out for you with your current relationship. I too have been with a few girls, i fall in love each time.. but they never work out. Im with the current one im dating and im starting to get feelings for her but i am having some trust issues. Not sure if its because of my past relationships, or is it her hanging out with other guys she call friends, ones who likes her.. sigh.. sucky position.
Carmen87 Posted July 28, 2008 Posted July 28, 2008 Prior to my current boyfriend, it would take 6 months or so. Or never. With my current it was within the first month. I trust him within a couple weeks, but that was helped along with the fact I had already known him a bit over a month.
dr0g0 Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 Yes, it can happen trust me. Love at first sight .. totally smitten with this lady. Its only been seven weeks but we had an instant connection. Some people say its impossible to fall in love at first sight, but when it happens to you .. you really do know and feel it. Trust on the other hand, takes time to build ...
sultry33 Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 i fell in love with my ex after about 4 weeks or so.. when it mattered to me that i was kissing other guys.. as soon as he asked me i realised i was in love.. prev to this we was supposed to be just fun.. i wish it would have stayed that way.. i never fully trust anyone ever
Potatocakes Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 He said he loved me after about four weeks, it took a little bit longer for me and I dont think it was love for him as much as he just really cared for me. We fell head over heals for each other after 4 or 5 months.
MarisaCraig Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 Im glad that its working out for you with your current relationship. I too have been with a few girls, i fall in love each time.. but they never work out. Im with the current one im dating and im starting to get feelings for her but i am having some trust issues. Not sure if its because of my past relationships, or is it her hanging out with other guys she call friends, ones who likes her.. sigh.. sucky position. Is this the one who goes on all those camping trips with her guy friends and went on vacation for the 3 weeks out of the month you guys were together and broke up with her bf of a few years weeks before you guys got together? I remember reading about her and thinking, "this isn't going to go anywhere!" Are you still with her? If so, from the sound of it, she is giving you reason to have those trust issues with her! Ugh, I'd drop her, but that is if we're talking about the girl you posted about...
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