MissT Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 (Oop's....that should read 'FROM'...soooorrrry ) I was with 'him' for 14 years, then suffered the anguish of his leaving me for another. He spun his lies and strung me along for a year and a half with talk of confusion and missing me as he slept in her bed under her roof. As the divorce proceedings rolled along and his behavior became more destructive, my wounds became deeper and harder to heal. Divorce final for 8 months, and he is STILL being cruel and manipulative (and hasn't paid Spousal Support one lick!). I met him for lunch last week to try and work out some kind of plan, he told the same lies as well as a new set. He tried to blame me for the marriage ending because of infidelity (HE LEFT ME FOR ANOTHER WOMAN!), and told me it was my fault that we couldn't reconcile because I 'shut him out'. There had been hundreds of emails and phone calls from me begging him to come back to me, telling him that I would work on getting past the affair and abandonment and go to counseling with him. His answer was always the same - 'I can't leave her, I love her and her children' - even when HE called ME to tell me that he missed me and wanted me back! Someone listening to my most recent encounter with the EH (Ex Hellion) said that they had recognized some sociopathic behavior in him. Since he left me I have tortured myself with self loathing, depression and constant questioning of the gods/goddess/my cats as to what I have done to make someone leave me in such a damaging and hurtful way. I did some Googling on sociopaths and came across this site that finally gave me the peace that I have not had in a VERY long time. http://www.lovefraud.com/ To those of you that have suffered at the hands of a sociopath I share this site. I HOPE that it gives you some of the peace of mind and self worth that you have been in need of. Best of luck to you! Link to post Share on other sites
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