LoyalGirl Posted July 28, 2008 Posted July 28, 2008 Cheating husbands, during the time of an emotional affair, how did you feel about/view your wife? What could your wife do (if anything) to snap you back to reality? How did your EA end? Thanks...
stoopid_guy Posted July 28, 2008 Posted July 28, 2008 (Each case is going to be different, but...) My relationship with my wife is platonic. It was platonic before the EAs started, and the EAs did not change that. We maintain a home together, we raise our daughter together, and we do other things together but the marriage has zero intimacy. What could my wife do to "snap me back to reality?" Most humans crave intimacy and romance. That IS reality. If intimate advances are rejected consistantly and for an extended period, intimacy dies. That is also reality. If one has no intimate partner they start looking for a new one. What's the reality to snap back from? What ended the EAs? In one case, the (also married) OW realized what was happening and ended it. In another, the romance simply faded. There's another that just now seems to be slowly and sweetly blossoming.
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