loveroadkill2 Posted July 28, 2008 Posted July 28, 2008 Okay... so this is the problem I am having... there's this guy that have known for awhile that I met at work we worked together for at least two years ,but recently our internships were over and we went our separate ways. We never had much of a relationship(but it was something ), I mean we hung out sometimes during work. However we never did anything outside of work, expect the occasional sightings of each other at parties . There has always been an obvious attraction between us two and he has told one of his friends at a party to tell me how interested he was in me (a little immature but sweet )and I expressed my interest in him to that same friend that night. After the party, that work next week we barely talked and it became incredibly awkward eventually we started to hang out at work ,but we never really talked about what happened at party .We just talked around it. A couple of weeks ago(about 2 months after the internship was over and haven't seen him since) he surprised me and sent me an message on Aim and asked me would it be okay if could call me I told him 'ofcourse' . We talked over the phone and talked about how much we missed each other our conversation was pretty short because i was busy at the moment ,but in the conversation he expressed how long and much he liked me, and the very moment he started to like me. The conversation was very genuine and I felt like he put his heart into what he told me.The conversation ended very sweet and he told me he'd text or call me that day. I was so excited the man that I had been infatuated with all this time has given me the chance to express my felling towards him and maybe start up a relationship with (who know s ,right?). Well its been a week and he hasn't called or text me like he said he would . I don't know what should I do I don't understand why he would express his felling like that and then treat me so sweet and leave me hanging like that . I would call or text him but it makes me feel uneasy to do that because I feel like a stalker if I were to do ,so since he clearly told and practically promised me he would call/text.What should I do move on or just wait?and How should I perceive his actions? (and I know he's alive and well because one of my friends bumped into him the ither day so tha factors out) Thank you in advance" SO POLL AWAY HeHE
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