my body is a cage Posted July 27, 2008 Posted July 27, 2008 I hung out with this guy last night that I used to hang out with all the time, and was hooking up with last summer. I ended things with him last year because there was too much drama involved, but I think I still have feelings for him. I left for school so I haven't seen him much over the year, and while him and his group of friends would still call me a lot when I was home for breaks, I tried to avoid hanging out with them too much because they can be a lot of trouble. We are still good friends, and get along well, but I guess the whole group of kids got the hint that I don't want to spend quite AS much time with them because they stopped calling me as frequently. Since last summer, this guy and I have almost hooked up a bunch of times, and I think/thought he still kind of had feelings for me too. Theres been a bunch of times (including the time before this that we hung out) where the two of us have driven around for hours talking and spending time together but have been too apprehensive to hook up with each other. Last night I decided to call him, and my friend and I went to a party where he was. He came and sat down next to me, placed his hand on my chair, torso turned towards me, and talked to me for a long time. It seemed like he was enjoying hanging out with me/ talking to me. However, my friend and I left a lot earlier than everyone else (even though it was pretty late). He had his guitar in my car so I asked him if he needed to get it. He came to my car with me, got his guitar, hugged me and said "I'll see you around." "See you around"?? He usually says "call me." I dont know if im reading way too much into it because everything else seemed to indicate he is still interested, but why would he say that instead of suggesting we hang out again? Was it because I haven't been making an effort to hang out with his friends? Or because I left early and didnt leave with him like I usually do? I'm sort of stressing out because hes moving at the end of August and I don't know if I'll ever see him again I feel like time is running out. I am confident that I'll definitely see him before he leaves, but I'm wondering if his "see you around" was supposed to be a brushoff. What should I do? Do you think he is unsure about how I feel about him, or just doesn't care wether we hang out or not? Should I just call him soon to make it clear that I am interested in spending time with him?
bigmanpayne Posted July 28, 2008 Posted July 28, 2008 yes. talk to each other. u have been around each other enough to be honest. just talk.
Author my body is a cage Posted July 28, 2008 Author Posted July 28, 2008 yes. talk to each other. u have been around each other enough to be honest. just talk. yes? yes to what?
Shygirl15 Posted July 28, 2008 Posted July 28, 2008 Yes, see you around doesn't sound too good for me. I had one who always said things like "look forward to see you soon", or "call me", then one day it was like "see ya!". I remained quiet just to see if he would contact me, but he never did.
Author my body is a cage Posted July 28, 2008 Author Posted July 28, 2008 Yes, it sounds like a brush off! in light of the whole story? his friend called me yesterday but i missed the call.
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