george1122 Posted July 27, 2008 Posted July 27, 2008 Ok guys and gals, I am pretty sure you have talked about it, however I will ask and get your opinion. Is it imparative for a guy to try to kiss the girl on or after the first date? I mean try, not actually kiss. She might pull away which is another story. I have heard that if a guy does not try to kiss, the girl thinks that he does not have guts. On the other hand, if a guy does try to kiss, the girl thinks that he too forward.
JustinWolf Posted July 27, 2008 Posted July 27, 2008 If I enjoyed the first date and I feel that she did too, there's no problem kissing. If, on the other hand, I feel that the moment isn't right. Then, there's no point. Usually when someone feels the other person is too forward it's because they chose the wrong time to lean in for a kiss.
Balthazar Posted July 27, 2008 Posted July 27, 2008 A short kiss on the lips is a great way to end an exciting first date, but it is not the end of the world if it doesn't materialize. Should a guy always go in for the kiss? No. You have to be in tune with the woman and see how she would feel about it. This is not always easy to do, but there are other actions you can take. For example, walk her to her door, take her hands in yours and hold them a bit longer than you would. She will understand your intentions, even if you don't attempt to kiss her. Some women are not sure about their feelings, or don't want to appear easy. Most will tell you they just don't feel comfortable kissing on a first date. Respect this, but keep working on creating a sexual rapport with the woman on the next date. The second date should have more kino on your part, and she should be more comfortable with your touch, getting closer to you. I things go well, there should be an attempt to kiss her sometime during the second date. If it doesn't happen, continue building rapport on a third date. If it doesn't happen then either, you should start to worry.... something is wrong. CHeers, CHeers,
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