phalanx Posted July 27, 2008 Posted July 27, 2008 Greetings~ I am new here, I have been broken up with my ex-boyfriend for over 3 yrs now. It really wasn't that bad of a breakup. what happened was I had moved over to the Uk where he was and I was staying with person I thought was truly my friend @ the time until I could find a place. Boy was I wrong as it just started to get really crazy she was causing my ex and I to fight every lil thing she was nit picking at my ex she just really didn't like him at all. It was like as if she wanted him to be by my side 24/7. Inevitably it was causing us to be distant from eachother to the point of where he didn't even want to come over as he didn't want to get into any verbal confrontations with her and so we broke up. I came back home to the US and was devastated but knew that I had to be strong and not let it get the best of me. Any way my ex starts contacting me via Msn Live Messenger a few months ago started talking about our break up and it would of been different if this person would have just kept out of our relationship and he feels bad and talks about the good time we had together and then he was like I still fancy you and how he misses me! I dont know what to make of it at all is he trying to get back with me after almost 3 years of being broken up~ any input would be appreciated
JustinWolf Posted July 27, 2008 Posted July 27, 2008 It was a mutual breakup? What did you feel when he contacted you again?
Author phalanx Posted July 27, 2008 Author Posted July 27, 2008 He broke up me~ I was actually shocked when he contacted me cause I wasn't expecting to ever hear from him
JustinWolf Posted July 27, 2008 Posted July 27, 2008 Hmm, I'm not sure exactly what he wants. No one here could guess. Did your relationship with him last a long time? I would suggest you don't expect anything because as far as I know he may be just seeing if you still have feelings or perhaps, he was dumped recently and is desperate. You could never really know. So, it all depends on what you want. You know him better than all of us, you could try to deduce if what he says is the truth. Also, are you willing to give him attention after he broke up for THAT reason? Are you strong enough to go through with it AGAIN? It all depends.
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