Mermaiden Posted July 27, 2008 Posted July 27, 2008 I'm lucky that after dating a complete raging psychopath for my 20s Ive dated good guys. Not perfect but good at heart. Anyway I feel kind of bad because one guy is still friends with me long distance. We dated and had sex and he has been nothing but great to me. He is fun in person but online and on the phone is one big snoozefest. Very nice man but his interests are quite limited. I feel ****ty because he acts so caring about my well being and is always updating me on his life. But it gets dull. I try to talk about current event,s news, movies , music to liven the friendship up.... But his answers are one note..... The irony is in person we mesh so well. the silence was nice in person. he would just sigh happily and look at me. In fact if it werent the 11 hour distance between us we would probably end up in a serious relationship... I am frankly confused why he keeps asking about me , my life in general and keeping me updated on his... He is sweet, funny (in real life) sooo hot , smart, and has plenty of other people to be friends with IRL. Anyway how do I cut down on the 3-4 times a week emails from him ? I dont want to hurt his feelings.
aubree1982 Posted July 27, 2008 Posted July 27, 2008 If you would like to cut down on the emails then simply wait awhile to respond to him when he sends you one. He will either get the hint or will email you more to make sure you are ok (since you haven't responded) Try this and see if it works.
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