pinkybecky Posted July 26, 2008 Posted July 26, 2008 Il keep this short...... Basically i was in a long term relationship of 3years it ended when i met someone else however when i started dating this new guy my ex was still around still totally obsessed with me and it was reali difficult to get on with the new guy. A Anyway he cant handle it and ended after 4 months finished with me. My original ex no easy way of saying this commited suicide, so my last ex got back in contact felt reali bad and understood i must have been goin thru a hard time so we got back together like we reali did like each other anyway we started dating again not long after my exs death so i reali wasnt ready and of course then again it didnt work out and we broke up. Now its been 6 months since his death and i feel totally refreshed and ready now and i cant stop thinkin about my ex and i reali want to text him even tho we split up we still met up and stupidly were sleeping together, well last time i spoke to him was 2 months ago and i gave him a drunken phone call tellin him i reali liked him and he said he liked me too and im definitly out of any girl hed met the girl hed want to be with but because of everythin that happened and the way i acted he wasnt sure if thats what he wanted just now anyway i havent heard from him since and i have dated other guys but I reali reali like him should i text or what should i do??
tanin84 Posted July 26, 2008 Posted July 26, 2008 Despite what other people might say, sometimes you have to forward with this person. I mean, really what is there to lose there. You don't have your ex right now, and if he says no you get closure and if he responds positively then that is good to. Go for it.
borelandkaren Posted July 26, 2008 Posted July 26, 2008 I think you guys have too much bad history and baggage. Move on. If you feel so great now, you may find that the past keeps coming up and you won't feel so good in the future. Keep up the good feelings, meet new people and the ex, if he's meant to be in your life, will be. If not, you've got a whole new, happier life that you're meant to have.
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