kidneyguy Posted July 26, 2008 Posted July 26, 2008 I'm taking a college course over the summer and I meet this girl named Holly.We hit it off well, invited me to her dorm, started watching Anchorman, then I had to leave (she walked me outside). Two days later, I see her again. It was an hour after we were supposed to meet in another place. I set up the meeting for the same time the next day, and she doesn't show. We occasionally text each other, and showed concern for me after I had a slight medical scare. Today, I texted her to see if she wanted to hang out and do something we both liked; no response. I think I'm starting to like her, but I feel like I'm doing something wrong. But what? What should I do to improve our relationship? I want to be her boyfriend, but how do I tell her? I'm a little shy when it comes to this kind of stuff, so how do I get over that? I'm going to see her Monday, so please tell me ASAP! PS: We're both kind of random, if that helps.
Suiyobi Posted July 28, 2008 Posted July 28, 2008 There's no one definite way to overcome shyness, but I found several webpages that provide tips on how to do it. http://www.nefsky.com/pg-shyness.htm http://www.wikihow.com/Overcome-Shyness http://www.ehow.com/how_2879_overcome-shyness.html Don't tell a girl you like her right away. Get to know her first, instead. As for her not responding to your text, that's totally up to you as to how you want to interpret that. Personally, I give people the benefit of the doubt so for the first couple of times I would take it lightly. But if she continuously does not respond to you then that should be a big signal that she's just not that into you. I'm taking a college course over the summer and I meet this girl named Holly.We hit it off well, invited me to her dorm, started watching Anchorman, then I had to leave (she walked me outside). Two days later, I see her again. It was an hour after we were supposed to meet in another place. I set up the meeting for the same time the next day, and she doesn't show. We occasionally text each other, and showed concern for me after I had a slight medical scare. Today, I texted her to see if she wanted to hang out and do something we both liked; no response. I think I'm starting to like her, but I feel like I'm doing something wrong. But what? What should I do to improve our relationship? I want to be her boyfriend, but how do I tell her? I'm a little shy when it comes to this kind of stuff, so how do I get over that? I'm going to see her Monday, so please tell me ASAP! PS: We're both kind of random, if that helps.
iwanttolive Posted July 29, 2008 Posted July 29, 2008 Don't give up if she withdraws at times. Gals need someone who can give them a sense of security and that means you need to show her that you're earnest. But don't smother her either. Just show that u care.
Author kidneyguy Posted August 1, 2008 Author Posted August 1, 2008 Any tips on how to tell her? I don't think I'm going to be able to face-to-face, but I will at least over the phone.
CommitmentPhobe Posted August 1, 2008 Posted August 1, 2008 I'm taking a college course over the summer and I meet this girl named Holly.We hit it off well, invited me to her dorm, started watching Anchorman, then I had to leave (she walked me outside). Two days later, I see her again. It was an hour after we were supposed to meet in another place. I set up the meeting for the same time the next day, and she doesn't show. We occasionally text each other, and showed concern for me after I had a slight medical scare. Today, I texted her to see if she wanted to hang out and do something we both liked; no response. I think I'm starting to like her, but I feel like I'm doing something wrong. But what? What should I do to improve our relationship? I want to be her boyfriend, but how do I tell her? I'm a little shy when it comes to this kind of stuff, so how do I get over that? I'm going to see her Monday, so please tell me ASAP! PS: We're both kind of random, if that helps. She's not interested if she was interested she'd meet up with you. Next time you see her flirt with her and stick your tongue down her throat, then maybe she'll be interested.
carhill Posted August 2, 2008 Posted August 2, 2008 I'm taking a college course over the summer and I meet this girl named Holly.We hit it off well, invited me to her dorm, started watching Anchorman, then I had to leave (she walked me outside). Listen to yourself. You and she hit it off well. She invites you to her dorm room, her private sanctuary. You have to leave and she walks you outside. OP, do you know what you did wrong? Hmmm ?? While you leave her alone, ponder that. Don't make that mistake again. I slap you
Author kidneyguy Posted August 2, 2008 Author Posted August 2, 2008 We couldn't meet up today, and I couldn't call her today (since I don't know when she gets off of class and coverage was weird). We both have AIM accounts and facebook accounts. Should I tell her through AIM, or the e-mail she provided through facebook?
carhill Posted August 2, 2008 Posted August 2, 2008 College student translation of my above posting---- Do not contact her right now. Regain her curiosity.
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