redblack66 Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 Some of you remember my long story. I was away intentionally from LS, but decided to post an update. We have our offer to settle, I am waiting for the other lawyer to send the separation agreement and STBXW will pay for the divorce . All is backwards. She wanted to get married at the time, not so much me, I wanted to keep the marriage, but she wants out, she does not want to be divorced, but she will do the application, so I do not file for a divorce based on adultery, because it is damaging to her and the kids. I have been living in France for nearly 2 months doing work and traveling in my free time. She asked me several times if I would invite her to France. She is with the kids with her parents now, and likely stay there for a long time. I just suck it up and move on, as simple as that. And I do feel bad about so many things, but just keep going. I talk to the kids on the phone 2-3 times a week, I avoid talking to her. One time she asked me if I had a company, I said this was too personal. Practically NC. Reconciliation was on my radar for 7-8 months, it is out of question now. She is selling the house and I don't want to have anything to do with it, just getting a bit unfair amount of money, but I am buying my piece of mind. When I go back to Canada, I am renting a one-bedroom apartment, and I will have the absolute minimum I need in it. The lawyers sucked a lot of money, and I will be lucky if I am -10K at the end. I think I have done all I could do, and trying to count my blessings rather than agonizing on what if.
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