Lucky555 Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 So i am kind of disturbed by a guy that i had dated and became friends with.....its my birthday and i am already a bit emotional cuz i am getting older!Here is my problem if he were my friend he would say happy birthday to me in an email, call, or something! If not then i believe i am cutting him out of my contact list forever. I don't think its irrational since we used to be really close. Another aspect is i do have an interview and i need to pull myself together! My friends are all away so its hard to get support. And why is this an issue that i have about this guy..because he wants to stay in my life but i am beginning to think that the more i have him in it the more it hurts me. In the first place i didnt really want to be his friend but it happened this way and secondly i value my friends and if hes not going to remember my day hes OUT of my friendship circle. I'm a bit confused by my emotions and at the same time i think it makes sense.
Keridan Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 I don't know what to tell you about the boy trouble thing. We guys, as a general rule, are a pain in the butt. However ... Happy Bday! I hope it gets better for you
xpaperxcutx Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 Aww I'm sorry you have the birthday blues. Try not to see everything in black and white at the moment. Maybe the guy's just busy? He'll text you eventually. Happy BDay tho
Lyssa Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 Maybe he thinks by not wishing you, it'll be easier for you to move on. When is your interview? If you're prepared for it, I'm sure it'll be a breeze!! Good luck and I'll hold my two thumbs for you!! Happy birthday, Lucky555!!
lexi29 Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 Happy Birthday! I hope you feel better. did you break up with this guy or was it the other way around. It is difficult to remain friends with someone is they broke up with you. Maybe there are some leftover feelings for him? I too believe that friends should remember your birthday. I am still friends with two of my exes (friends as in we talk, email and hang out occassionaly) and this year neither one called or emailed on my birthday even though they normally do. They are just guys I guess. women make more of a point of remembering birthdays. I once dated a guy who totally forgot my birthday. We had only been dating for 2 months and I was sixteen but it still was a big deal to me. Its funny cause this same guy just contacted me the other day on my space to say hi and we hadn't talked in about eight years. If you still have feelings for this guy then you need to stop being friends with him. It will hurt too much to continue. As for your interview- good luck!! make sure you always have a question (to show your interest in the company) to ask at the end. And if you are not confident then just try to fake it. I wish you the best.
Author Lucky555 Posted July 26, 2008 Author Posted July 26, 2008 yeah i feel better about my day.. my interview i am going next week instead of today i have mixed feelings about him not wishing my happy b-day..i ll survive it but i am keeping my distance
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