Lookingforward Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 I don't get it, Lizzie. How can you feel that she's not fully justified in not wanting contact with you???? She's not an idiot in any fashion...and she's clearly got every possible reason to be thorougly infuriated that the two of you are still in ANY kind of contact...let alone that he's one of your 'clients'. What in the heck do you expect her to think about this whole situation???? And I've got to say...calling HER spoiled for getting things from him when you're boinking him for gifts is probably the most hilarious thing I've read in a very long time. Sheesh. perhaps owl, but it IS idiotic to think you can wipe out a past R by ignoring it ever existed, and this a relationship where they lived together, not just an A. It's like someone telling you not to ever bring up your previous M partner. Link to post Share on other sites
Owl Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 No...in this case, its like asking no one to mention your spouses current affair partner. Is it a bit childish? Perhaps...but not nearly as foolish as expecting her to act normally about the fact that she found out about contact between Lizzie and him. Link to post Share on other sites
pollywag Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Thanks for explaining that Lizzie, now I see what you mean. She sounds like a nincompoop, she "forbids the children to say your name?" Typical BS behavior, "let's brush things under the carpet pretend they never existed, and hopefully they'll go away and never happen again." Whatever works to pass time I suppose... Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Gosh you're bitter.. maybe some therapy would do you some good.. Nothing bitter about it. You have posted here before revelling in the defeat of the BWs. So naturally I can just see you sitting there with a grin on your face while typing that she found out and is pissed off. and for your information.. no it doesn't please me Your past posts indicate otherwise. .. if I wanted to be mean and nasty ... gawd I could be sooooo mean and nasty.. it's just not in my nature.. I'm too laid back.. 'live and let live'... Live and let live? This coming from someone that purposely looks for married men?....uh.....ok:confused: Link to post Share on other sites
Kasan Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Lizzie, these scenarios seem to get more outlandish the longer you post. The participants seem like they are out of some kind of warped movie. Lots of thrills, chills, and intrigue that ultimately go nowhere, as we all know they can't. I also have this strange premonition or foreboding that the outcome from one of these little adventures will end badly for you. It just seem a bit out of control..........you know? Please be careful. Link to post Share on other sites
Owl Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 I'd agree that she's being a typical BS...she wants the OW removed as far from the situation as possible. Since Lizzie's been sleeping with him for gifts throughout all of this...I couldn't possibly understand why his wife would be upset at the idea of the two of them resuming contact, you know? I mean...its not like she could have heard something (or been told things by him) about Lizzie that might make her be suspiscious and distrusting of her...especially since she's an ex. I mean...people NEVER cheat with an ex, do they? Nawwww....you're right. She should cherish the mention of Lizzie in their household. Perhaps a shrine to Lizzie ought to be placed in the living room? Link to post Share on other sites
Lookingforward Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 No I was calling her an idiot because once the kids talked about me.. and she shut them up.. they can't say my name in front of her.. This is kind of stupid IMO. Lizzie did the kids ever live with the two of you during your R ? Curious as to how old they were at the time of your R with the ex.. Link to post Share on other sites
GPFan Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Lizzie, these scenarios seem to get more outlandish the longer you post. The participants seem like they are out of some kind of warped movie. Lots of thrills, chills, and intrigue that ultimately go nowhere, as we all know they can't. Soon we will be reading about the trauma drama of discovery day. All the stories are lining up to this conclusion. No matter what, I am sure Lizzie will come out on top. Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 This is the first time I'm reading that Lizzie pursues MM. I'm speechless. Link to post Share on other sites
Lookingforward Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 This is the first time I'm reading that Lizzie pursues MM. I'm speechless. well no, I think THEY pursue her, but she's not known for saying "no" either Link to post Share on other sites
Owl Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 well no, I think THEY pursue her, but she's not known for saying "no" either No...but "check, cash, or charge" seems to be more common than about anything else. Barter apparently works too. Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 well no, I think THEY pursue her, but she's not known for saying "no" either she has stated numerous times that she prefers married men and puts herself in a position to be pursued. And lets not forget the post she threw out there telling everyone here about her little experiment to test her theory about her ability to get any man to cheat on his wife. She just met a guy, knew he was married, so she threw her hook out there and snagged him. Such a fine person to do such a thing. Now the fact that these men, if you can call them that, are cheating on their wives are complete bastards for doing so in no way mitigates the despicable role she plays in the betrayal of their wives. Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky_One Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 So seriously, is she a prostitute or something? Link to post Share on other sites
Lookingforward Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 she has stated numerous times that she prefers married men and puts herself in a position to be pursued. And lets not forget the post she threw out there telling everyone here about her little experiment to test her theory about her ability to get any man to cheat on his wife. She just met a guy, knew he was married, so she threw her hook out there and snagged him. Such a fine person to do such a thing. Now the fact that these men, if you can call them that, are cheating on their wives are complete bastards for doing so in no way mitigates the despicable role she plays in the betrayal of their wives. Can hardly blame lizzie though that the guy took the bait.....what about his personal responsibility and integrity ? If MM were "all that" you could seduce away as much as you wanted with no result, no ? Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 So seriously, is she a prostitute or something? Check out description in the Merriam-Webster dictionary description. Notice the phrase "especially for money"...meaning that money needn't be a factor to be considered under the definition. http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/prostitute Link to post Share on other sites
Lookingforward Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 So seriously, is she a prostitute or something? Lucky the best way for you to decide that for yourself would be to read some of her posting history Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Can hardly blame lizzie though that the guy took the bait.....what about his personal responsibility and integrity ? His personal responsibility and integrity are for crap. he is a jackass for cheating on his wife. Again, it doesn't mitigate her despicable actions of throwing the bait out there in the first place. The personal responsibility and integrity of both parties involved are for crap. Link to post Share on other sites
Dark-N-Romantic Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Maybe the woman just needs to go psycho and take care of business her way. While violence and murder is not the true answer, I can and would turn a blind eye to it. No one has the right to hurt someone else and that is what affairs do. DNR P.S.: She can always find out her phone bill other ways. Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Maybe the woman just needs to go psycho and take care of business her way. While violence and murder is not the true answer, I can and would turn a blind eye to it. No one has the right to hurt someone else and that is what affairs do. . Ah wishful thinking...*sigh* the stuff dreams are made of. Link to post Share on other sites
pollywag Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 I'd agree that she's being a typical BS...she wants the OW removed as far from the situation as possible. Exactly how much of this attitude is making her succeed in keeping Lizzie away from her husband? 0 of it. Because when you keep a cheater around they only try harder to get away with murder. Lizzie is always the one winning here the W is the loser in the game unfortunately, but you get what you sign up for I'm afraid. Link to post Share on other sites
Owl Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 I think that how you define "winner" and how I define "winner" are potentially FAR, FAR different from each other. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted July 25, 2008 Author Share Posted July 25, 2008 No...in this case, its like asking no one to mention your spouses current affair partner. Is it a bit childish? Perhaps...but not nearly as foolish as expecting her to act normally about the fact that she found out about contact between Lizzie and him. yabut she has no clue we actually talk together since our break-up.. she found my # .. he denied even having spoken to me in all those years.. so she has no clue we even talk ... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted July 25, 2008 Author Share Posted July 25, 2008 Lizzie, these scenarios seem to get more outlandish the longer you post. The participants seem like they are out of some kind of warped movie. Lots of thrills, chills, and intrigue that ultimately go nowhere, as we all know they can't. I also have this strange premonition or foreboding that the outcome from one of these little adventures will end badly for you. It just seem a bit out of control..........you know? Please be careful. I know it's rock n' roll sometimes.. my life IS complicated.. with all those men (some are MMs, some are 'clients' only for massages, one is 'bf' (for now) most have no clue what else is going on in my life.. so yes, I have to be careful but I am.. trust me I am... but sometimes it gets a little complicated.. but so far so good.. I managed.. Link to post Share on other sites
Owl Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Lizzie...how many affairs have you seen "busted" because of a BS's "gut feeling"??? She may not have proof...that you know of. She may have had any number of reasons to SUSPECT...even just changes in his actions/attitudes. That "gut feeling" has been the outing of many an affair. She clearly wasn't comfortable with you in some manner to begin with, if she didn't even want your name mentioned. SOMETHING caused her to feel that way...and in retrospect, it was clearly justified. He IS cheating with you. Link to post Share on other sites
pollywag Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 I think that how you define "winner" and how I define "winner" are potentially FAR, FAR different from each other. Ok well let's put it this way. Who is the one being made out to be a schmuck by being kept in the dark and by being made out to see something that is not real? Who is being made a mockery of? And who is the one that decides "if the name Lizzie doesn't get mentioned then the house is safe from harm"? Of course this woman is a victim, but to go as far as to call her a winner, that's a stretch. She is the loser because even if she catches her H in his wrong doings, she will more than likely continue to stay with him. So anyone who can willingly stay with someone who they have to keep spying on keeping tabs to make sure he is not cheating and who can also be so easily lied to, can't do anything more than lose. Link to post Share on other sites
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