Chinook Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 Be carefull FitMomma. In Chinook's situation, this was true, but I've read enough of your situation to know it's not. It is very easy to be gas-lighted in these situations, by the spouse and there "friend".I agree completely (having also been cheated on myself)
rose315 Posted July 30, 2008 Posted July 30, 2008 I just wanted to say that I pretty much just typed up your exact same story last night. I'm going through the same exact thing and I discovered my H's EA last Christmas Eve. I wish I had some words of wisdom but i'm just as hurt and confused as you are. I too am trying to move on but I'm having trouble doing that because of lack of trust. I don't know if my H is continuing to see her or talk to her. I also don't know if they have had any type of physical affair (he says no but I have a hard time believing that). Anyways, if you need someone to talk or vent too who's going through the same thing i'd love to talk more. I have no one to talk too about this and I feel like i'm going crazy by keeping it bottled up inside. I know how much it hurts and how difficult it is to think about anything else. Take care
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