kizik Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 All right, I'm tired and going to bed but I just wanted to say that I AM ADDICTED TO LOVECRACK I create more threads than God, I wish I didn't post so much b/c I'm like the kid in the classroom who's always straining his hand by raising it. Signs of being addicted to LoveCrack: -checking LS immediately after your email in the morning -cruising the Breaking Up and Coping boards, before voyeuristically checking out the Dating board. If you're kizik, your eyes are bigger than your dick over there. -having a group of cyber LS friends whose threads and posts you always check: "just because it's them" -Having over 1,000 posts in 2 months Thanks to everyone for aiding my addiction! Josh
nopainnogain Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 Lovecrack rules. I was banned and now im back.Its the crack.
borelandkaren Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 All right, I'm tired and going to bed but I just wanted to say that I AM ADDICTED TO LOVECRACK I create more threads than God, I wish I didn't post so much b/c I'm like the kid in the classroom who's always straining his hand by raising it. Signs of being addicted to LoveCrack: -checking LS immediately after your email in the morning -cruising the Breaking Up and Coping boards, before voyeuristically checking out the Dating board. If you're kizik, your eyes are bigger than your dick over there. -having a group of cyber LS friends whose threads and posts you always check: "just because it's them" -Having over 1,000 posts in 2 months Thanks to everyone for aiding my addiction! Josh Oh, I love ya, darlin! I do exactly the same things and I don't even feel guilty about it! If I smoke drugs I do, so this is the GOOOOD drug!!!
justaman99 Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 I'm with ya. I'm addicted as well but it's a good thing. It beats therapy and I've learned more on here than I would from anywhere or anyone else that's for sure. -Just
northstar1 Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 All right, I'm tired and going to bed but I just wanted to say that I AM ADDICTED TO LOVECRACK I create more threads than God, I wish I didn't post so much b/c I'm like the kid in the classroom who's always straining his hand by raising it. Signs of being addicted to LoveCrack: -checking LS immediately after your email in the morning -cruising the Breaking Up and Coping boards, before voyeuristically checking out the Dating board. If you're kizik, your eyes are bigger than your dick over there. -having a group of cyber LS friends whose threads and posts you always check: "just because it's them" -Having over 1,000 posts in 2 months Thanks to everyone for aiding my addiction! Josh I agree totally. I check this thing in the morning, and on and off all day. I've learned a lot, the value of NC (even as I still fight that concept daily), and met some great folks. But then part of me wonders, is this peristent checking keeping me even more focussed on the pain, the breakup, looking for answers which there really may not be any clear cut ones. I don't know. when i read about someone's ex contacting them, i get a pang of jealousy. It's a love/hate thing, if that makes sense.
roghornio Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 But then part of me wonders, is this peristent checking keeping me even more focussed on the pain, the breakup, looking for answers which there really may not be any clear cut ones. I don't know. I thought this too.. but it kind iof helps. Some of the peoples stories on here are so sad... it makes me realise how lucky i never had to suffer cheating, abuse or what not. i'm not really sure why i read this place so much. Ive learned a hell of a lot from this place, and all your experiences... it's rather addictive finding out how otheres situations are panning out, even though mine is pretty much a closed book now.
northstar1 Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 I thought this too.. but it kind iof helps. Some of the peoples stories on here are so sad... it makes me realise how lucky i never had to suffer cheating, abuse or what not. i'm not really sure why i read this place so much. Ive learned a hell of a lot from this place, and all your experiences... it's rather addictive finding out how otheres situations are panning out, even though mine is pretty much a closed book now. I agree. But then again, my relationship ending was not because of hatred, or cheating, or abuse or etc, and i'm still going through a world of pain.
Nevermind Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 And I think all of you who didn't get out of abusive relationships have it harder. Because it's not clear cut. I can feel bad and not good enough all day long, but in the end: he cheated, he put me down, he lied. There is clearly a reason why we are not together anymore. I can only imagine how it must be to "be ended" by someone suddenly, without much reason or preparation. And yet you are all so strong. I admire that.
Angel1111 Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 'LoveCrack' -that's hysterical. I like reading all the different perspectives. I don't really have anything overly good or bad going on in my life right now but I've probably already screwed up about as much as I can, and I hope someone else can learn from my experiences. Of course, there's nothing like screwing up our lives for ourselves to really get the message. The problem I have is that I sometimes lose posts. I will think about something and want to check on how someone is doing, but then I can't for the life of me find it. A lot of the time I can if I'm persistent, but sometimes I never do. It really annoys me that I do that so much. So, if I don't show up here again, you'll know I got lost....
Peter_pan Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 use the search thats all i do lo at this post. i have a slight case of the lovecrack
carhill Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 You do know by posting this thread that LS will go down for maintenance tonight, don't you? LS has been a great adjunct therapy to MC, for me. Gave the process depth. The needs of the many overshadow the needs of the one. Giving advice is a great mirror.
foxh1234 Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 I am on here too much as well. I truly feel like alot of you are my friends and I wonder and worry about you. I come on now to see how everyone is doing and offer back to this community that has helped me so much. I notice alot of new people coming on the coping board and they need our experience and help as much as I needed it a few months ago. I sometimes feel sad re-reading things from before and I am still feeling bad about my situation. I will continue to heal and post on here in hopes that something I say may ease the pain of another.
ioncebelieved Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 K, you sure do create many threads!!! But it helps me in NC as well just like Northstar said! Knowing there are others like me out there have been great support!! POST to your hearts content!!
carhill Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 Hotel California " Last thing I remember, I was Running for the door I had to find the passage back To the place I was before ’relax,’ said the night man, We are programmed to receive. You can checkout any time you like, But you can never leave!"
carrot10 Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 I am also addicted to this site! I never thought in a million years that I would be on a forum about relationships. I am so grateful for finding it and people allowing me be part of their lives. I have learned SO much about people in general. I probably won't ever leave either!! lol
justaman99 Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 I would rather learn how to deal with things out of a relationship then **** it up while in it. This place gives me a lot of information on how different events unfold, how important communication is, how important standing up for yourself is, how important it is to be independent while also being able to share yourself in a relationship. In short this place has allowed me to mature and really think and understand how to be a better partner without ****ing it up and learning the hard way. -Just
foxh1234 Posted July 26, 2008 Posted July 26, 2008 I would rather learn how to deal with things out of a relationship then **** it up while in it. This place gives me a lot of information on how different events unfold, how important communication is, how important standing up for yourself is, how important it is to be independent while also being able to share yourself in a relationship. In short this place has allowed me to mature and really think and understand how to be a better partner without ****ing it up and learning the hard way. -Just You said it man, I am learning the same things here. I will be better prepared next time for sure, thanks to all of you.
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