HE's killing me softly with no words ??TRY AGAIN WIT HIM OR TELL HIM 2 HIT THE ROAD??

[loveroadkill2]

Okay... so this is the problem I am having... there's this guy that I have known for awhile that I met at work we worked together for at least two years ,but recently our internships were over and we went our separate ways. We never had much of a relationship(but it was something ), I mean we hung out a lot during work, took lunch breaks together,and had inside jokes. However we never did anything outside of work, expect the occasional sightings of each other at parties . There has always been an obvious attraction between us two and he has told one of his friends at a party to tell me how interested he was in me (a little immature but sweet )and I expressed my interest in him to that same friend that night. After the party, that work next week we barely talked and it became incredibly awkward eventually we started to hang out at work ,but we never really talked about what happened at party .We just talked around it. A couple of weeks ago(about 2 months after the internship was over and haven't seen him since) he surprised me and sent me an message on Aim and asked me would it be okay if could call me I told him 'ofcourse' . We talked over the phone and talked about how much we missed each other our conversation was pretty short because i was busy at the moment ,but in the conversation he expressed how long and much he liked me, and the very moment he started to like me. The conversation was very genuine and I felt like he put his heart into what he told me.The conversation ended very sweet and he told me he'd text or call me that day. I was so excited the man that I had been infatuated with all this time has given me the chance to express my felling towards him and maybe start up a relationship with (who knows ,right?). Well its been 2weekz and he hasn't called or text me like he said he would . I don't know what should I do I don't understand why he would express his felling like that and then treat me so sweet and leave me hanging like that . I would call or text him but it makes me feel uneasy to do that because I feel like a stalker if I were to do ,so since he clearly told and practically promised me he would call/text.What should I do move on or just wait?and How should I perceive his actions? {can't stop thinking about him and I want to stop checking my phone to see if he called}{help me please}

[Angel1111]

I don't usually recommend calling a guy but I don't think it would be a bad idea in this case. The reason is, you had a friendship before this, and that last conversation you had with him ended on a positive note. I think it would make sense for you to call, at least as a friend, and make sure that he is ok, since he has bacially fallen off the face of the earth it would seem.

 

But, if you call, just be prepared to deal with the possiblity that he may pick up the phone, sound all cheerful and act like nothing at all is wrong. You need to anticipate this because it could possibly happen, and you need to be prepared with a response. The other thing that could happen is that you call, he doesn't answer, you leave a message, but he never calls back. Either way, you're kind of putting your neck on the chopping block and risking getting hurt. But, whether you're hurt by this or not, you'll have an answer. It just depends on how much you're willing to risk to get that answer.