loveroadkill2 Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 Okay... so this is the problem I am having... there's this guy that have known for awhile that I met at work we worked together for at least two years ,but recently our internships were over and we went our separate ways. We never had much of a relationship(but it was something ), I mean we hung out a lot during work, took lunch breaks together,and had inside jokes. However we never did anything outside of work, expect the occasional sightings of each other at parties . There has always been an obvious attraction between us two and he has told one of his friends at a party to tell me how interested he was in me (a little immature but sweet )and I expressed my interest in him to that same friend that night. After the party, that work next week we barely talked and it became incredibly awkward eventually we started to hang out at work ,but we never really talked about what happened at party .We just talked around it. A couple of weeks ago(about 2 months after the internship was over and haven't seen him since) he surprised me and sent me an message on Aim and asked me would it be okay if could call me I told him 'ofcourse' . We talked over the phone and talked about how much we missed each other our conversation was pretty short because i was busy at the moment ,but in the conversation he expressed how long and much he liked me, and the very moment he started to like me. The conversation was very genuine and I felt like he put his heart into what he told me.The conversation ended very sweet and he told me he'd text or call me that day. I was so excited the man that I had been infatuated with all this time has given me the chance to express my felling towards him and maybe start up a relationship with (who knows ,right?). Well its been 2weeks and he hasn't called or text me like he said he would . I don't know what should I do I don't understand why he would express his felling like that and then treat me so sweet and leave me hanging like that . I would call or text him but it makes me feel uneasy to do that because I feel like a stalker if I were to do ,so since he clearly told and practically promised me he would call/text.What should I do move on or just wait?and How should I perceive his actions? {can't stop thinking about him and I want to stop checking my phone to see if he called}{help me please}<and I did tell him my feelings toward him but i didnt get to express them as much bcuz he was in a rush that day a total hurry cuz he was late 4 something(so he says) so i was juat gonna tell him our i felt..... and he clearly understood i was interested in him>
Author loveroadkill2 Posted July 25, 2008 Author Posted July 25, 2008 Please i really cant understand it s drivin me insane should i try again wit him or tell him to hit the highroad
aubree1982 Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 This is very strange! I can see why you are confused, he tells you he's interested and will call but never does. I guess it's not to shocking since it did take him so long to tell you how he felt. Maybe, something came up and he hasn't been able to get a hold of you. Or maybe now so much time has past that he feels dumb for calling now...I dunno? If I was you I would probably send a text saying "Haven't heard from you, are things okay?" I know this isn't what most ppl on here will say...most ppl would tell you to leave it alone but I don't see the harm in texting him once to see if you get a response back. If you don't get a response then yes, move on. He obviously told you he likes you and you two are friends, so asking him if things are okay shouldn't be too pushy. Good Luck!
imbewildered Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 If I was you I would probably send a text saying "Haven't heard from you, are things okay?" I know this isn't what most ppl on here will say...most ppl would tell you to leave it alone Good Luck! He has developed " buyer's remorse" . This guy is somewhat passive and lacks confidence which explains why he took so long to spill his g*ts. Someone has to take the next step -why not you? And also ignore all the doom merchants on here who will tell you to forget him.
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