daveyo II Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 I'm a big fan of deep relationships because I feel like I can gain more from them instead of a self-gratifying instant ****. But all I see is people hooking up for promiscuous sex everywhere I go. Then I guess they find the right pleasure partner and they start a relationship. I mean it's pretty depressing. It reminds me of the game "musical chairs" and the music is going to stop in a couple of years, and I will be the only one without a chair. What sucks even more is that I'm from the Deep South and everyone is getting married by the time they are out of college.
confused and broken Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 I'm a big fan of deep relationships because I feel like I can gain more from them instead of a self-gratifying instant ****. But all I see is people hooking up for promiscuous sex everywhere I go. Then I guess they find the right pleasure partner and they start a relationship. I mean it's pretty depressing. It reminds me of the game "musical chairs" and the music is going to stop in a couple of years, and I will be the only one without a chair. What sucks even more is that I'm from the Deep South and everyone is getting married by the time they are out of college. It sounds like you are fairly sure you are doing the right thing... so what kind of an answer do you really want?
Author daveyo II Posted July 25, 2008 Author Posted July 25, 2008 My question is that should I just give it up and join the crowd? I'm a senior in college and I am panicking about how I'm supposed to meet people in the real world. It doesn't help that I'm an engineer too (male dominated workplace).
confused and broken Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 My question is that should I just give it up and join the crowd? I'm a senior in college and I am panicking about how I'm supposed to meet people in the real world. It doesn't help that I'm an engineer too (male dominated workplace). Ok so the only way I can answer this is IMO... Anyways IMO experimenting and having sex is a pretty normal thing that people go through... And although you should be careful (use protection) I don't think that its healthy to take it way too seriously... Part of the way you find out what you want is by figuring out what you don't want... But it sounds like there is more to your question... Are you asking how to meet girls or............
HeartLikeLead Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 i like that me and the hot guy I like both stayed virgins until our 20s. Now we're wild but appreciate how serious sex can be (it also make sme trust that he isnt a manwhore)
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