Loveroadkill Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 Okay... so this is the problem I am having... there's this guy that have known for awhile that I met at work we worked together for at least two years ,but recently our internships were over and we went our separate ways. We never had much of a relationship(but it was something ), I mean we hung out a lot during work, took lunch breaks together,and had inside jokes. However we never did anything outside of work, expect the occasional sightings of each other at parties . There has always been an obvious attraction between us two and he has told one of his friends at a party to tell me how interested he was in me (a little immature but sweet )and I expressed my interest in him to that same friend that night. After the party, that work next week we barely talked and it became incredibly awkward eventually we started to hang out at work ,but we never really talked about what happened at party .We just talked around it. A couple of weeks ago(about 2 months after the internship was over and haven't seen him since) he surprised me and sent me an message on Aim and asked me would it be okay if could call me I told him 'ofcourse' . We talked over the phone and talked about how much we missed each other our conversation was pretty short because i was busy at the moment ,but in the conversation he expressed how long and much he liked me, and the very moment he started to like me. The conversation was very genuine and I felt like he put his heart into what he told me.The conversation ended very sweet and he told me he'd text or call me that day. I was so excited the man that I had been infatuated with all this time has given me the chance to express my felling towards him and maybe start up a relationship with (who knows ,right?). Well its been a week and he hasn't called or text me like he said he would . I don't know what should I do I don't understand why he would express his felling like that and then treat me so sweet and leave me hanging like that . I would call or text him but it makes me feel uneasy to do that because I feel like a stalker if I were to do ,so since he clearly told and practically promised me he would call/text.What should I do move on or just wait?and How should I perceive his actions? {can't stop thinking about him and I want to stop checking my phone to see if he called}{help me please
Jilly Bean Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 Aw, that's SO cute! I think it took a LOT for him to spill his guts like that, and I am sure he is feeling WAY vulbnerable now. Shoot him a text, and ask him when he'd like to get together. Keep it light. Something like, "hey! want to go see the xyz this weekend?"
norajane Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 What did you say to him after he told you he liked you? You've said a lot about what he said, but nothing about how you reacted. Maybe he didn't get an interested vibe from you, and is now feeling embarrassed? Otherwise, I got nuthin'. Makes no sense why he wouldn't call after saying he'd had feelings for you for a while and that he'd contact you the next day. I hate people who do stuff like that.
loveroadkill2 Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 YEA He Totallii knos how i feel about him but if he jus dissd me and never returned lik he said he wud should i 4get him... I mean its hard i think i devlopd sum deep feelins 4 him i used 3 think he cud possibly b the 1 untill this happend
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