Blondi26 Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 My boyfriend and I dated for about three years. Lately, we started getting friendlier. He said that he missed me, that all he did for awhile was to compare other girls to me and no one ever matched up, that all along he was attracted to me and crazy about me, was crazy about spending time with me, said he always wanted me, etc. Asked if I was dating anyone, what my parents thought of him, and if I wanted our relationship back. Admitted he hasn’t dated anyone since we split and was completely unattached. We started “dating” again and had a good time together. Then, I was supposed to call to hang out and I blew him off and he freaked out and said that this showed that he could not trust me and that I only wanted to hang out when I wanted something. Then all of a sudden, he didn’t know if hanging out with me was a good idea. On our last date, we hang out and have a good time, cuddling and kissing, even though he seems a bit reserved. He brings up the fact that we are not dating. He said he couldn’t trust me again. He also said that he enjoyed being single and that he wanted to be single for the next couple of years. So now I am confused. We broke up and I thought I had a good chance of getting back together with him. He seemed like he still liked and cared about me and wanted to get back, now changed his mind, what gives?
orangesean Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 He just sounds silly, I don't understand either. Why did you blow him off though? Getting back together is a pretty delicate process.
Author Blondi26 Posted July 25, 2008 Author Posted July 25, 2008 I blew him off because everything was going really great and he seemed like he wanted me back. And then a few days later, he says that he doesn't want to get into another relationship tomorrow and that he isn't sure if he could date me again because he isn't sure if we could rebuild the trust. He said it wasn't impossible though, and I could pursue it if I wanted to. So I was mad b/c it seemed like my chances were not good. So I didn't call him to let him know when I was free. I am not sure if he said this cause he meant it or b/c I flipped out and lied that I had slept with other guys after we broke up. And then when I don't call, he freaks out and says I thought it would be different, I thought I could trust you, but you didn't call. Grrr.....doesn't make sense
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