xclusiive Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 how can i deal with my bf going to the club like i never go cuz im just not liek that but he thinks if he goes hes so cool he has to put on show in front of his frends nd hes obv goin for the hoes pardon my french i mean all guys do no offence nd if i no hes jus goin for sum girls even tho im his number one it stil bugs me nd i get really really mad. what should i do nd how do i get that off my mind that hes doinn sumtin bad.?? id apprecaite al answers expecialy form guys point of view thanks and plss ??
geotaz Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 do you know for a fact that he is getting with other girls at these clubs? or is that just what you think?
jackie11 Posted July 26, 2008 Posted July 26, 2008 While he's out doing his own thing you need to do the same. Hangout with your girlfriends, or goto a party with them. Trust me while you're out having fun your mind won't race the way it does when you're sitting by yourself.
norajane Posted July 26, 2008 Posted July 26, 2008 Maybe you two shouldn't be dating at all. You may not be compatible. If he really likes going out to clubs all the time and you don't like to go at all, then that's a lot of time you'll be spending apart. Time that he's having fun and you're anxious about what he's doing with other girls. Time that you two aren't doing something fun together. You might be happier with someone who also doesn't like to go to clubs and who won't make you feel jealous and anxious all the time.
HiItsMe Posted July 26, 2008 Posted July 26, 2008 Maybe you two shouldn't be dating at all. You may not be compatible. If he really likes going out to clubs all the time and you don't like to go at all, then that's a lot of time you'll be spending apart. Time that he's having fun and you're anxious about what he's doing with other girls. Time that you two aren't doing something fun together. You might be happier with someone who also doesn't like to go to clubs and who won't make you feel jealous and anxious all the time. Well, typically, I thought once people started coupling up...the desire to go to nightclubs would wane....or...if they do go...they go together, once in a while. Esp when my friends got married....now...their idea of "going out" is shopping at the Home Depot for their home, or watching their kids soccer game
norajane Posted July 26, 2008 Posted July 26, 2008 Well, typically, I thought once people started coupling up...the desire to go to nightclubs would wane....or...if they do go...they go together, once in a while. Esp when my friends got married....now...their idea of "going out" is shopping at the Home Depot for their home, or watching their kids soccer game They're never going to get to the marriage stage if they don't spend much of their free time together, and if they have diametrically opposed views on how to spend their evenings and if she's always worried about what he's doing at those clubs with other women. They sound young, if he's posturing for his friends at clubs. I doubt they're anywhere near "coupling up" and ready for Home Depot.
loveinlife Posted July 26, 2008 Posted July 26, 2008 how can i deal with my bf going to the club like i never go cuz im just not liek that but he thinks if he goes hes so cool he has to put on show in front of his frends nd hes obv goin for the hoes pardon my french i mean all guys do no offence nd if i no hes jus goin for sum girls even tho im his number one it stil bugs me nd i get really really mad. what should i do nd how do i get that off my mind that hes doinn sumtin bad.?? id apprecaite al answers expecialy form guys point of view thanks and plss ?? I feel the same about the current girl im dating with. She's been hanging out with her cousin's friend, who likes her, while hanging out with the cousin at the same time during her vacation right now. I feel insecure about a few things she does, like she spent a night over at his house with her cousin, as she says. Im not sure if that is what she really did or if her cousin was right there. They hang out a lot and its making me think she is messing around. Today she is going to a concert with her family over there and she told me that he is her drinking partner. This girl parties a lot and hardly think about her future. Im not sure if i want to be with her, to stress out so much thinking if she is doing something behind my back..
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