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Does anyone know where you can post the name or alias of a serial cheater so he doesn't hurt anyone else? He is like one of those sick guys you hear about on a 20/20 special. He did everything from lie, cheat to steel. He was and is on just about every single site there is. I have spoken to woman in his past and this is what he has done to all of them. He comes off like a smooth talker. And is clean cut and attractive so no one thinks he would be capable of being who he really is. He has hurt so many people. And I would like to see this monster get his! This is not a thing of revenge. But rather a desire to help and warn anyone who might be as naive as I was to fall for him.

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Dazed-N-Confused:confused:

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Does anyone know where you can post the name or alias of a serial cheater so he doesn't hurt anyone else? He is like one of those sick guys you hear about on a 20/20 special. He did everything from lie, cheat to steel. He was and is on just about every single site there is. I have spoken to woman in his past and this is what he has done to all of them. He comes off like a smooth talker. And is clean cut and attractive so no one thinks he would be capable of being who he really is. He has hurt so many people. And I would like to see this monster get his! This is not a thing of revenge. But rather a desire to help and warn anyone who might be as naive as I was to fall for him.

Thanks,

Dazed-N-Confused:confused:

 

peepsheet, womansavers..there are many out there, only those 2 come to mind.

 

I also saw ads for something like dontdatehimgirl

 

Only problem I have with these sites, whether it is men or woman that post, is that I have to wonder how many people out there just simply put up names and pics of people that might not have cheated on anyone, but simply ended the relationship and someone is scorned.

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put an add in the personals section of craigslist (for whatever town you/he are in)

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If you're really serious, get a domain name. "XXXXisaserialcheater.com" :)

 

Build a whole web site and post the domain in your signature line on all the forums you frequent. Google will pick it up and everyone will know :)

 

I got this idea from a frequent flier who had issues with United Airlines and created a web site called "Untied.com" :)

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datingpsychos.com

 

If you read any of the stories, most (not all) are people p**sed off about being cheated on.

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sniff sniff.....I smell law suit.....be careful!!

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Were you dating my ex? I snooped through his email and his contact list in his phone after we broke up and found that he's on and has been on every single website out there.

 

The best thing to do, which I'm doing, is just let him be and move on. Sad to say, but those websites aren't looked at by the people who really need to look at them.

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Don't bother wasting your time or energy, its just not worth it.

 

Sure you're hurt but trying to get revenge will only prolong your pain and keep him in your mind. Move on from it, put it behind you. :)

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Were you dating my ex? I snooped through his email and his contact list in his phone after we broke up and found that he's on and has been on every single website out there.

 

The best thing to do, which I'm doing, is just let him be and move on. Sad to say, but those websites aren't looked at by the people who really need to look at them.

 

 

I understand and appreciate your opinion.

And for the record... My Ex is located in Ft. Lauderdale, Fl. ;)

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I guess I'd be worried about a slander lawsuit...

But... if you post his name one one of these sites- when someone does a search of his name on google- the site would come up.

And let's face it- we all google someone we are dating. I know I do, just out of curiousity.

 

If he's a con man... it might save another woman from going through what you did. If he's stealing from the woman he dates... I see no problem in letting the world know. Just make sure you know the laws first.

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Thanks so much for all the feedback! Its greatly appreciated!

For a couple of you, I would like to say.... While yes, I am hurt and disappointed that I was in a situation like that in general... I am by no means looking for revenge. I am simply sick of liars and really feel compelled to warn the next naive girl. This is not a case where I got dumped and am scorn. This is more like... Yeah, I got fooled now warn the next poor soul. At the end I actually ended up talking to a few of the girls he cheated with (yes believe it or not. I just had to really hear the truth from someplace! At one point there was so much BS, I didn't know if I was coming or going!).

And the sad part is... I almost felt sorry for a couple of them. The things he did and said etc... I almost forgot I was the one being cheated on and started consoling them.

 

But anyway, I will keep checking back every chance I get and look for your general consensus. I will go with the majority. If you all think I should just let it go, then I will. If not, then I will post him someplace.

 

Thanks so much again guys (and girls);)! Have a good one!:)

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You are taking alot of responsibility onto yourself by wanting to protect young and naive girls from sexual cheaters...Your heart is in the right place, but the thing is, most women are going to do what they're going to do, advice put out there or warnings put out there or not. Some people need to learn through their own (painful) experiences.

 

By doing this, IS it going to hold you back? Prevent you from moving on?

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You are taking alot of responsibility onto yourself by wanting to protect young and naive girls from sexual cheaters...Your heart is in the right place, but the thing is, most women are going to do what they're going to do, advice put out there or warnings put out there or not. Some people need to learn through their own (painful) experiences.

 

By doing this, IS it going to hold you back? Prevent you from moving on?

 

Well, Thanks , you are right. I guess in my mind I'm just so upset that anyone like him thinks he can do these things and its OK, and the thought of any other decent girl going thru this makes me ill.

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How old is this guy?

 

Well, I hope you let this go..Though this may make you feel better, eventually what goes around, comes around. I truly believe this! One day he'll meet his match and she'll screw him over and not care.

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This whole ordeal reminds me of an episode of "two and a half men" lolll. Seriously though, just forget about him. I know you're trying to do something good for them but what goes around comes around. Karma's a bi*ch.

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How old is this guy?

 

Well, I hope you let this go..Though this may make you feel better, eventually what goes around, comes around. I truly believe this! One day he'll meet his match and she'll screw him over and not care.

 

 

Yes very true, I am a firm believer of that as well. I truly believe he will get his eventually. Thanks for the feedback.

 

Ps...

He is 35! can you believe it? LOL

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It isn't worth it and one day, it will come around on him in that he will lose something he values for his lack of ethics and morality.

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I would have to agree with you if we were talking about someone else. But this scum has NO VALUE on anything or anyone. He is sick!

 

But thanks Leoni, under normal circumstances I would say we think alike.

Regardless though, I am just letting it go. If anyone comes my way that asks me anything, I will tell them the truth. But after looking into things, there is not much else I can do.

 

I guess we all just have to live and learn. It sucks, but just the way it is.

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"Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves"

 

- Confucius

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dontdatehimgirl.com

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