Ruby Slippers Posted July 29, 2008 Posted July 29, 2008 Doesn’t matter anymore. It all ended this weekend. Tried to talk about it but he kept going back to him not liking the crowded parking or being on the 2nd floor, etc. (Lame, IMO.) He wanted to come and go without having any responsibilities what-so-ever and I just couldn’t go along with it. I didn’t hear “I love you and I want to be with you” in anything he was saying. He moved all of his things back to his parent’s house and I’m sure they said nothing about it. Wow. Good for you for sticking up for what you know is right. My needed-to-cut-the-cord ex had the same BS excuses: Apartments are dangerous; only drifters live in apartments; I have a nice big yard here. Blah blah blah. He's a baby who prefers to keep taking a handout from mommy and daddy over actually working for what he wants and earning those things himself. That or he is too full of fear to strike out on his own. You deserve a man, not a child.
daphne Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 gemini, congratulations. you are telling yourself that you want an adult relationship, so I'm sure you'll find one. It's good that you don't want a relationship so badly that you'll settle for one that's really half of one. Sometimes I think it's hard to see long term the things that won't work until you've already had enough. By that time, you will have wasted precious time you could have used to find someone who is better relationship material. Your guy may turn it around, but it probably wont' be for some time. I've known a few people like him and they're still struggling. That's sooo not for me.
sweetbutcheeky Posted July 31, 2008 Posted July 31, 2008 Would you prefer he move in with you or get his own place? I would worry if he lived with you he would do the same thing. Difference being you wouldn't pay his bills.
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