mandamichelle209 Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 i love my boyfriend with everything i have.. he's the best thing ever.. we fight but i know its all worth it because we love each other and it will just make us learn and grow stronger.. but he thinks im a bitch sometimes and thinks i believe everything i hear.. it all started out when his exgirlfriend would call me and message me saying they still love eachother and they still hook up so i got mad at him and he denied it then he sends her picture comments on her pictures saying shes sexy and when can he **** and whatnot... so i got mad at that but he says THERE JUST WORDS he tells girls what they wanna hear and those things arent happening so i shouldnt be worried.. then another girl messages me saying im ...'s girlfriend so me and him got in a big fight and we went on a break for only like a week.. after that it was good but the girl put pictures up of him on her myspace saying I LOVE YOU BABY do you love me and hed leave her comments on pics of her butt saying baby you aint fat you got a fatass and fat p#y and i already hit from behind.. but he told me he only had sex with me and his ex.... so me and him would fight because that girl is his best friends cousin and he goes there all the time and shes there.. he would say that i get mad over the littlest things and its not that big of a deal its just words once again... then the other night he told me he cheated on me so ive been giving him a hard time about it but im still with him... he told me hes sorry and i need to get over it..cuz its never gonna happen again but how can i when im with him she texts and tries to call him the whole time.. am i taking it over the top getting mad by everything?
AdrianaLima Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 I don't think you are taking it over the top. Your boyfriend is just basically disrespecting you, and up in your face doing it as well.He knows that the two of you are in a relationship, and he see how all of this is hurting you.So I don't understand why he could carry out and do this,and just act so nonchalant about the whole thing.
bish Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 i love my boyfriend with everything i have.. he's the best thing ever.. we fight but i know its all worth it because we love each other and it will just make us learn and grow stronger.. but he thinks im a bitch sometimes and thinks i believe everything i hear.. it all started out when his exgirlfriend would call me and message me saying they still love eachother and they still hook up so i got mad at him and he denied it then he sends her picture comments on her pictures saying shes sexy and when can he **** and whatnot... so i got mad at that but he says THERE JUST WORDS he tells girls what they wanna hear and those things arent happening so i shouldnt be worried.. Ya right, don't you believe a word of that crap. No, you are not simply jealous. Your bf is a dog. Lose this ditchpig.
zxcirce Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 I don't think he sounds like the "best thing ever"...or anything remotely close. He seems disrespectful and like he's playing you and a bunch of other girls, too. Do yourself a favor, get rid of him. There's plenty of other guys out there who will treat you better than him.
blondiepants Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 Exactly what part of your boyfriend is "the best ever?" He is trash. This is some seriously lame/childish/loser behavior. He sounds like a loser - the kind of guy who gets fired from jobs all the time because he's a huge loser. Is he? Just plain trash - the kind of guy that a classy woman walks by on the street and laughs at. He is disgusting, probably cheating on you, and not worth your time at all. Trash. Get rid of him, or you run the risk of lowering yourself to his loser standards.
non4321 Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 Get rid of him, like, last month. There's no excuse for a boyfriend leaving comments like that to other girls. So disrespectful to you, and the girls. And shows what a pig he is. I'm no feminist either. He needs to grow up, and no offense, but you have a little growing up also if you're willing to stay with a guy that treats you like that. Not on a high horse myself, I also have growing up to do. But yes, don't take that BS from a guy. Please.
xclusiive Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 trust me girl, you are deff not taking it over the top. o god me and my bf have had sooo many problems aswell but never has he or the grl hes cheated with kept talking to eachother. thats a definite NO-NO. you need to take control. DO NOT let him make you feel responsible. i no how that feels sometimes i still go through the hurt. no matter how long its been when somebody youve trusted has cheated on you ..it may be forgiven but not forgotten. you need to have a serious talk with him and tell him to cut all contact with that specific grl or depending on the ohters..with them 2.thats takign ti 2 far like first he comments pictures in that way and then he cheats on u nd then he STILL stays in contact. read over your own thread and pretend your reading somebody elses. sounds stupid but when you see it fomr somebpody elses point of view you realize just how miuch of a jerk he is.
BUTTAFLYH Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 Ok sweetie, I'm sorry you're going through this first of all. He's an a.s.s. But please don't be a fool. He is playing you every which way he can. And he's doing it in your face! Which makes it even worse! He's LYING about everything. I mean the comments he's leaving those girls are so disrespectful to you and ..I mean..he's just a dog. Sounds like he thinks you're the type who "will always be there" no matter what he does and he's taking full advantage of that. I mean he told you to "get over it". What an a.s.s.hole. I'd get over it alright..I'd get over him and move on to bigger and better things. I know it may be hard, but just ask for the support of family and friends and leave his sorry a.s.s. Good luck!
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