WiseOne1 Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 Im pretty sure on all of our way here, searching for answers we found loveshack. But did anyone ever consider one of those "Get You Ex Back" books, or "Get Over Your Ex" books? The testimonys and alot of people say they work, they bassically preach the exact same thing that LS teaches "NC" only with strategies. I will never buy one of those because I feel that i spent to much money on my ex anyway. So what do you guys think about them?
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 I think relationship books are helpful in a time of need, much like a crutch is helpful when you break your leg. They can give you insight, information and advice - but ultimately, the only thing that works is clearing your mind (and heart) until you can reach objectivity and then making decisions based on clarity, not cloudy. Some people need books for that, others don't. The book is merely the tool. The real success comes from how you use and implement that tool when you adapt it to your own needs, and get to the point where you don't need it.
CaliGuy Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 Do I think the books help? A little. They teach you how not to repeat the same mistakes, come off needy/clingy, etc. They teach "tactics" but what they don't teach are MINDSETS. You need to figure out what part of YOU is broken and fix it. You can't fix others. For that reason, I suggest books that talk about personal improvement. That is why I recommend "No More Mr. Nice Guy" so often. It's not a "tactic" book, it's a book that helps me change their wussy/needy/clingy behavior and mold them into REAL men. As for winning an ex back or fixing a broken relationship, I suggest "Love Must Be Tough" (Dr. James Dobson). It's not a tactic book either. And most of the time the relationship is BROKEN and can not be repaired. The best thing one can do is realize that as soon as possible and MOVE ON with their life... What I think is a rip off are the "How to win your ex back" books. Now that is a complete and utter waste of time and money. Tactics to trick your ex back to you always fail. You need to FIX YOURSELF first. After that, odds are you won't want her back anyway!
orangesean Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 Relationship books offer help and advice. Some of it is good and some of it can be completely irrelevant to your individual situation. I know a guy who isn't a professional or anything and came up with his own ebook about relationship advice and how to get your ex back. He has some good information about communication and offers some of his own unorthodox "magic tricks" for getting an ex back. In all I would have to say it's one of the better ones out there and the guarantee he gives is basically his own confidence that his own advice works. He offers a no hassle money back guarantee and you get to keep the ebook. Doesn't really get any better then that if you ask me. Magic of Making Up Maybe it could be helpful or maybe it's the same re-hashed rubbish everyone else has. Worth a look at least in my opinion You are totally either a robot or working for this guy. Not to be trusted. As far as relationship books... I'd say only trust ones that are ACTUALLY on Amazon and have enough garner to be published. Also I think ones about winning women back or getting what you want now etc. are all just saying stuff you already know. I think the relationship books that do help are the ones that are written about keeping your already existing relationship healthy and not about cat and mouse games.
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