portcitykitty Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 What is it about a guy's fixation on wanting to cum inside a woman, no condom or anything?? Has anybody ever heard of this, or do I only get the freaks? lol
jadedone Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 What is it about a guy's fixation on wanting to cum inside a woman, no condom or anything?? Has anybody ever heard of this, or do I only get the freaks? lol How old are you? first of all condoms suck. Second, pull out sucks too. If you're clean, and on birth control, then just about every guy will want to cum inside you.
Author portcitykitty Posted July 24, 2008 Author Posted July 24, 2008 How old are you? first of all condoms suck. Second, pull out sucks too. If you're clean, and on birth control, then just about every guy will want to cum inside you. I'm 33.....yes I'm clean, but not on birth control...he wants me to be, but I'm having a hard time deciding on what form I want to go on... the most effective with the least side effects
Angel1111 Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 This is the most natural act since the beginning of time. Are you kidding???
Author portcitykitty Posted July 24, 2008 Author Posted July 24, 2008 This is the most natural act since the beginning of time. Are you kidding??? I know, I know... I just dont understand why they dont want to use a condom and just cum in the condom, in me!
Lizzie60 Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 Most men hate condoms.. I can't blame them .. it doesn't feel as 'natural' ... but in your case, if you can't take BC pills then he doesn't have much choice..
endlesstrains Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 No guys LIKE to use a condom... it's awkward, it doesn't feel as good, etc. Seriously if you give it just a minute of thought and think about what kind of sensations they have down there it's obvious why they would prefer not to use one. And I imagine it's pretty frustrating to pull out, too. My guy pulls out (I never specifically asked him to but when we stopped using condoms he started pulling out) but recently has been saying that he would like to cum inside me sometimes and I really have no problem with that. As long as you get on some form of birth control there is nothing wrong with it. People complain about the side effects but personally I have been on 3 different types of BC pills in my life and didn't experience a single side effect from any of them.
Author portcitykitty Posted July 24, 2008 Author Posted July 24, 2008 No guys LIKE to use a condom... it's awkward, it doesn't feel as good, etc. Seriously if you give it just a minute of thought and think about what kind of sensations they have down there it's obvious why they would prefer not to use one. And I imagine it's pretty frustrating to pull out, too. My guy pulls out (I never specifically asked him to but when we stopped using condoms he started pulling out) but recently has been saying that he would like to cum inside me sometimes and I really have no problem with that. As long as you get on some form of birth control there is nothing wrong with it. People complain about the side effects but personally I have been on 3 different types of BC pills in my life and didn't experience a single side effect from any of them. Yeah I can imagine the difference in feeling a condom makes, even the thinnest ones. I'd still be paranoid if I was on some sort of BC and he came inside me...the only sure-fire way I'd be totally relaxed would be if we were both "fixed" lol
aubree1982 Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 Have you ever been on birth control? If so, did it work for you in the past? If so, then you probably have nothing to worry about.
Lizzie60 Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 Yeah I can imagine the difference in feeling a condom makes, even the thinnest ones. I'd still be paranoid if I was on some sort of BC and he came inside me...the only sure-fire way I'd be totally relaxed would be if we were both "fixed" lol Do you want kids? If not, you can get 'fixed' if you want..
Author portcitykitty Posted July 24, 2008 Author Posted July 24, 2008 Have you ever been on birth control? If so, did it work for you in the past? If so, then you probably have nothing to worry about. I've been on BC before in the past, but it was only for regulating my periods...it was way before I lost my virginity, so, I couldn't tell you how effective it was at preventing pregnancy Since I became sexually active, I've just used condoms...the last guy was supposedly "fixed", but I still chose to use condoms, for fear of STDs.
Author portcitykitty Posted July 24, 2008 Author Posted July 24, 2008 Do you want kids? If not, you can get 'fixed' if you want.. No, I don't want kids, and I wouldn't mind getting "fixed", I just can't afford it right now
Lizzie60 Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 No, I don't want kids, and I wouldn't mind getting "fixed", I just can't afford it right now Huh?? you got to pay for it? I'm so glad I'm in Canada.. we don't have to pay for medical care.. (well we pay it in our taxes, but it's way better)... we can use medical care as much as we want..
Author portcitykitty Posted July 24, 2008 Author Posted July 24, 2008 Huh?? you got to pay for it? I'm so glad I'm in Canada.. we don't have to pay for medical care.. (well we pay it in our taxes, but it's way better)... we can use medical care as much as we want.. Dag, lucky you
Angel1111 Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 Huh?? you got to pay for it? I'm so glad I'm in Canada.. we don't have to pay for medical care.. (well we pay it in our taxes, but it's way better)... we can use medical care as much as we want.. Don't get me started on the medical care [or the lack thereof] in the U.S. That's a whole new thread that would go on endlessly.
endlesstrains Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 No, I don't want kids, and I wouldn't mind getting "fixed", I just can't afford it right now If you are young I think that would be a pretty bad decision. You may be 100% sure right now that you don't want children, but things can change down the line, and that decision is irreversible.
Angel1111 Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 I've been on BC before in the past, but it was only for regulating my periods...it was way before I lost my virginity, so, I couldn't tell you how effective it was at preventing pregnancy Since I became sexually active, I've just used condoms...the last guy was supposedly "fixed", but I still chose to use condoms, for fear of STDs. I have to admit that I've never known anyone quite so paranoid about getting pregnant. You might want to get yourself an IUD - usually insurance pays for all of it and it lasts for 10 yrs. Then, if you're that certain you never want kids, save your money for the snipping.
Lizzie60 Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 Don't get me started on the medical care [or the lack thereof] in the U.S. That's a whole new thread that would go on endlessly. I know.. but you can always move to Canada!!! what a beautiful country we have.. but I have to admit that eventhough medical care is free... our system is not that good.. we lack physicians..
Author portcitykitty Posted July 24, 2008 Author Posted July 24, 2008 I have to admit that I've never known anyone quite so paranoid about getting pregnant. You might want to get yourself an IUD - usually insurance pays for all of it and it lasts for 10 yrs. Then, if you're that certain you never want kids, save your money for the snipping. Girl, seriously, I'm very paranoid about getting pregnant, especially out of wedlock, thanks to how I was raised! A friend of mine has an IUD, and she loves it. Problem is, I'm lacking insurance right now...I'm in a tight bind here!
Enema Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 I think guys want to cum inside because our biological drive is to ensure our genes get passed on. We're built to get you pregnant so we're built to try! The last thing I want in this world is a kid, but it turns me on to think that I'm cumming inside my wife and she might get pregnant. She's on the depo-provera shot btw. One injection every 3 months and good to go. No side effects.
Angel1111 Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 I think guys want to cum inside because our biological drive is to ensure our genes get passed on. We're built to get you pregnant so we're built to try! The last thing I want in this world is a kid, but it turns me on to think that I'm cumming inside my wife and she might get pregnant. She's on the depo-provera shot btw. One injection every 3 months and good to go. No side effects. I've heard it said that humans are the only animals who have sex purely for pleasure (although I've never personally asked the cows and chickens their thoughts on this). It just simply feels exquisitely good.
trubella Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 She's on the depo-provera shot btw. One injection every 3 months and good to go. No side effects. really.. no weight gain? i used to get the shot and packed on some weight, only negative effect i had from it. it was enough to make me switch back to the pill.
Angel1111 Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 I know.. but you can always move to Canada!!! what a beautiful country we have.. but I have to admit that eventhough medical care is free... our system is not that good.. we lack physicians.. Free medical care without physicians? That's kind of like a car without wheels, isn't it? Well, I'm sure your system has its flaws - but at least you have one.
Lizzie60 Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 Free medical care without physicians? That's kind of like a car without wheels, isn't it? Well, I'm sure your system has its flaws - but at least you have one. I said we lack physicians.. I was lucky and found one last year.. a young female doctor.. and she's really good.. very competent.
Angel1111 Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 Girl, seriously, I'm very paranoid about getting pregnant, especially out of wedlock, thanks to how I was raised! A friend of mine has an IUD, and she loves it. Problem is, I'm lacking insurance right now...I'm in a tight bind here! Well, if it helps you feel better, BC is extremely reliable. Nothing is 100% certain except abstinence, but I have never personally known anyone who got pregnant while taking the pill.
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