DennyRosario Posted July 23, 2008 Posted July 23, 2008 I am single, and hate it. I am so very very lonely. I feel isolated. I have no one to talk to. I really miss being with a girl who loves me. My question is, should I attach myself to the first girl that is interested in me, just so I can feel good again.
Balthazar Posted July 23, 2008 Posted July 23, 2008 An old song says "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with..." Problem is, this is bad advice. I have tried being with girls who are interested in my, but whose affections I do not wholly share, and believe me, it doesn't work. Unfair for her, unfair for you. You need to find a girl who is into you, but who you are attracted to also. The problem with most people is that we expect that special someone to appear on our door. Unfortunately, that doesn't happen(except in movies), you need to get out there and live life, especially getting together with friends. If you don't have many friends, join groups where you can meet new people. It's fun and fruitful, CHeers,
Throne Of Lies Posted July 23, 2008 Posted July 23, 2008 Can we get some amplifying info? How long have you been out of the relationship? Because if it is pretty fresh, then no worries, just hammer through a few weeks and bob's your uncle. But if has been a year or two, there is some merit in doing what you are saying. Starting a relationship that you don't really expect to go anywhere isn't really immoral- it just isn't a really hot idea either. I agree with Balthazar in that as stated, what you are thinking is not fair or just. But don't get ahead of the situation- if some girl is interested in you, a little dating and some steamy make outs will make you feel worlds better. There is no need to be timing when you are going to be dropping the first L bombs on each other before you have asked anyone out. You know? Good luck. And you live in Sydney for goodness sakes! What could be wrong in your life! Haha, just kidding.
Lauriebell82 Posted July 23, 2008 Posted July 23, 2008 Yeah, that would not be the best idea. First of all, I doubt you'd be happy being with someone you don't even care about, second it would take you off the market for someone who you really did care about and you'd end up really hurting the girl you were using. Like another poster suggested, take up some kind of hobby, do something to occupy your time. A girl will come when the time is right.
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