woods321 Posted July 23, 2008 Posted July 23, 2008 *Sigh* The point has never been to hold off on sex to KEEP the guy around. The point is, seeing as most fledgling relationships don't work out AND women are incapable of keeping sex and feelings separate, it behooves a woman to wait to sleep with him until she's sure he's in it for real to protect her own feelings. Some women have much better intuition than others. You know, they know, it happens, and you are together. Some women don't have a clue, and ALWAYS sleep with guys that take off. I feel it lacks confidence when a woman would "make the guy wait to make sure he will stick around". Usually when they start like this, they will be insecure in other ways through out the relationship. Why would he take off? Going on a few extra dates means he will stick around? Or now you own him because you had sex? What if a man said that to you? "Well we have been on a couple dates, but I don't want to have sex yet because you might not be in it for the long haul and I don't want my feelings to get hurt because i am thinking you might take off after sex with me. So lets just do some heavy petting " It sounds pathetic. And it sounds pathetic to men too.
Virgo1982 Posted July 23, 2008 Posted July 23, 2008 Some women have much better intuition than others. You know, they know, it happens, and you are together. Some women don't have a clue, and ALWAYS sleep with guys that take off. It's probably because she/he/both have sex for the wrong reasons.
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