Princess_in_love Posted July 23, 2008 Posted July 23, 2008 So, i was in a relationship for 1.5 years and we broke up about 3.5 months ago. I am a very honest person, not promiscuous, but lately there is ONE guy that I REALLY LIKE so was promiscuous with. I've been going out with my girls lately on the weekends, drinking a bit more than normal. I met this guy, and REALLY like him. I met him through my friend, because she started dating this guy (we will call him B) and we went over to hang out with him (B) and his roommate (guy i like). His room mate (W, guy i like) ended up flirting with me a lot, and ended up kissing me after we talked for a while. It was very innocent at first. Well, my girl (A) wanted to stay the night, and I trusted this guy (the one I like, W) and decided to stay too. I made it very clear nothing was going to happen, and he seemed harmless. He was that night! I slept in his bed. He tried a lot, you know, but I kept saying "no, I JUST met you" Then, W went to the beach, so I didn't see him the next weekend. Then two weekends ago, B invited my girl A and I over again, with some of our other friends. B told W that I was coming over, he was sleeping and got out of bed to see me. He kept saying "I want to kiss you, but not in front of your friends..." and "you're the only girl i see here!' and other sweet things that will end up breaking my hear because I like him too much. Again, I stayed with him. This time, he did some things to me that made me decide it would be a good idea to sleep with him. I said "COME HERE" and he was like "REALLY?!?" yeah. oops. And then this weekend, he showed up at the bar that I was at with friends, because again, B was there with my girl A. W invited me over, just me this time. I went, and again, we hooked up. I'm not this kind of girl, and he doesn't seem like this kind of guy. It was fun, and I'm (unfortunately) doubtful anything serious will come of it. What I want to know from you guys is this: 1. Is there any way to get him to like me, more as a person? Or is there no way? (I had a relationship in the past that began physical, and ended up almost marrying him after two years) HOW can I get that to happen with this guy? W was in a relationship with a girl for a long time, and she wanted to marry him, but he didn't want to marry her, so he broke up with her. They haven't spoken for about 3 months (is what I was told) What can I do to get him to want to see me and get to know me, NOT JUST a booty call? I'm expecting some harsh responses, just because I know how it seems. It seems like I've showed him little reason to respect me, when in fact I'm a very respectable girl. I really like him. We are both college graduates with great jobs, both care about family and have great personalities and get along really well (so far). I'd love to hook up with him again, only because i like him so much, but I don't want to set myself up for heartbreak as I am already doing. What can I do? ALSO, I wore his t-shirt home, so I have to give it back to him, and I also left something there. He's not a phone person, and hasn't called me, I texted him to tell him I left something there, and thanks for the ride home, and the t-shirt! HA! Do you guys think I should call him when I'm in town (oh yeah, I live an hour and a half away, but plan on moving back in a few months), or just forget about all of it and find another guy? I really like him is the only problem... I'm determined! What do I do?????
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