How can i stop feeling bad for myself and do something about being single!

[Brady_to_Moss]

Like today at work and driving home...saw so many pretty girls that are beautiful...i just cant imagine one of them ever liking me...i have never had a girl have feelings for me in that way and i am 19....6 feet weigh 153..i am a good looking guy in college that goes to partys and meets alot of girls actually..but i always like them and they never feel the same.... I think becasue i dont flirt....i just cant see myself with a gorgeous girl...i know they are just people like me and you but i cant get that through my head

[Redbull Rider]

instead of seeing women as potential mates see them as new people in your life. enjoy the moments. if something comes from it so be it...if not at least you enjoyed hanging out and getting to know them.

 

women can smell desire. if you come on too strong they usually step back. try being the one that is more aloof and you may find they step forward instead.

 

 

i sounded like a bad fortune cookie didnt i? lol

[bish]

Like today at work and driving home...saw so many pretty girls that are beautiful...i just cant imagine one of them ever liking me...i have never had a girl have feelings for me in that way and i am 19....6 feet weigh 153..i am a good looking guy in college that goes to partys and meets alot of girls actually..but i always like them and they never feel the same.... I think becasue i dont flirt....i just cant see myself with a gorgeous girl...i know they are just people like me and you but i cant get that through my head

 

Dude, after being married for 8 years and divorced as of last year, being single is da s##t!!!!

 

Don't be down on yourself for being single. I love being able to do what I want, when I want. Enjoy it while you can.

[Serph]

At least you're tall, that's an enormous advantage. Shorter guys are impeded when they try to date. So, I think you should find solace in the fact that you're tall and girls love tall guys. Build up enough confidence, nonchalance and resolve and you'll eventually make your way.

[Dharmaa]

I just cant see mysekf with a gorgeous girl...i know they are just people like me and you but i cant get that through my head

I was with you till the last......

Not to many women are "gorgeous". This means you are canceling out a lot of nice and decent women in your quest to feed your selective desires. I have a good friend who is interested in me but after watching him make a fool of himself chasing after another friend who rejected him straight up, I am not so keen on being a consolation prize. I fear I would always wonder if he thought he had settled for second or third or fourth best. Women have the right to be visual creatures as well. Maybe those gorgeous women do not find you attractive. I find it hillarous that all the men in the world are chasing after roughly 10% of the women in the world. Someone is boud to be left out if that's the way the game is played. I would be so bold as to say that if you took the time to look around you at the women you interact with, you will notice that at least one or two nice but less than gorgeous women are trying to get your attention in their own way. Maybe like you they have trouble flirting..... just a thought.