Crazy.S Posted July 22, 2008 Posted July 22, 2008 We've been broken up for 5 months. I was the dumpee and it wasn't till 2 months later that we really stopped seeing each other. Well she just graduated in May and we both go to school in Boston. Even though we were broken up, we still hung out. I even went to her graduation. Now she has moved back home and I no longer see her since. (we were in a ldr, and Boston was our only common ground) She messages me once in a while. She messaged me on the fourth of July weekend and asked me what I was doing. So we talked a bit and I asked her if she still wanted to come to my graduation. (later than hers because I did internships) She said yes she did. But further along the conversation I come to find out she's been dating with this guy for about 2 months. When I heard that I was pretty much speechless. I had nothing to say to her and I told her I don't think I can be friends with her right now. I told her I wasn't mad at her and ended the conversation there. Well since then I haven't contacted her at all and I pretty much deleted all forms of contact with her. Well I will be graduating next month and I don't know what I should tell her. I don't think it is a good idea for her to come anymore, but I want her to. I don't want to break old promises. Flashback to when we started, we went to each others prom. And we started college together but not at the same school. We supported each other and always talked about graduation and whatnot. What should I do? What should I say to her? Should I even tell her? It is bothering me because I don't want to be inconsiderate. Maybe she really wants to come?
ItalianLove59 Posted July 22, 2008 Posted July 22, 2008 If shes still dating this guy i dont think that he will be excited about her going to an old boyfriends graduation. If she has been dating it means she has moved on. I dont suggest telling her to go, if she wants to she'll contact you. I know it hurts but it will take time.
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