iwanttolive Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 If the ex has a little common sense to realise he/ she shares the blame for the relationship breakdown, all of us will not break up at the first place! It is frustrating, but the ex either lives in lala land or is a bast**d
nopainnogain Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 " Hey ____ (in a sad longing voice), For the last 3 months of NC ive been doing a lot of thinking...Ive realized how much pain and hurt I have put you through. Im sorry for everything . Im sorry for scratching,kicking and crashing you 1982 pimped out metallic blue trans am on purpose,im sorry for decieving,lying,and backstabbing you. Im sorry 4 foolin with your best friend and ruining your friendship. Im sorry 4 cheating on you again with my co worker whos married w/kids, who I said I would never hook up with. Im sorry for blowing him the day before I gave you my sorry letter..Im sorry 4 throwing pizza at your face,and throwing your tools in the pool. Im sorry:lmao:" ME- "I know your sorry:cool:" (you dumb $$$$$)
borelandkaren Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 What would I like him to say to me? Nothing. He is both a liar and a loser who is not worthy of my eartime.
TalkLikeLion Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 I don't want him to say anything to me, unless he truly realizes what a terrible person he is and how many people he's hurt. If he could overcome all of this- which is doubtful, because psychopathy is essentially incurable- I would love to hear him say he's sorry. I would love to hear him beg me to be friends with him. But I won't hear any of it. He might (probably will) realize in a month or so that he misses me and he'll call, but it won't be sincere. And if it isn't, I don't want anything.
PhoenixFromTheFlames Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 I'd like him to tell me that he values me.
changchewsoon Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 well, i would like to tell her that she can kiss my a**
Rainswept77 Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 I would be happy to just see her one last time, that we have shared the same dreams, and that she has thought of me too.
onmyownagain Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 I want my ex to say "You can have the house, pensions and all the money, I just want to be happy with my new bloke" :-)
xpaperxcutx Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 I really don't want to hear his whiny voice. I'm happy with a check of the money I spent on his sorry ass.
JustinWolf Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 "xxx(my nick), I was wrong for what I done. As days have passed, I realised you were right and that I was wrong of being with someone else. You still mean everything to me. I apologise for what I did. It was the biggest mistake of my life. I need you, xxx. Come back to me. I've always loved you and always will." I'll look and pause. Then, I can either hold her or walk away. I still haven't made my mind.
sunshinegirl Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 "I'm sorry." "I broke up with hooch." "I'm in therapy." "I plan to be alone for awhile - until I sort myself out." "I miss your friendship."
Angel1111 Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 I would like one of them to say the following: "I have invented a time machine and it can take you back to the moment just before we met. Then you can decide to walk past and never meet me, and erase every memory you have of me. It would be like I never existed."
sedgwick Posted July 25, 2008 Posted July 25, 2008 The main thing I want to hear is "I recognize the need to take care of myself and am making changes in my life." Followed closely by, "I was a jackass, take me back." Oh, and "I'm in therapy," would be a good one too.
orangehose Posted July 26, 2008 Posted July 26, 2008 "I'm sorry for acting like a jerk. You didn't deserve it." Though you know, on some level, I prefer to just hear nothing. Every day that goes by without contact just further proves what a poor character he has. I'd rather have lost a jerk than someone with a capacity for reflection and remorse.
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