worriedmid30s Posted July 22, 2008 Posted July 22, 2008 Hi Guys, I posted here a little while back about problems with my marriage of 5 years. My wife wants space and said I should seek help via counselling - I have and am feeling MUCH better about myself and finding a new confidence. She can't fail to have noticed this, but is very distant. I am a very affectionate person, but am wondering how to proceed with kisses, cuddles and other shows of affection. Despite our problems, I'd love to do the things I always did, but don't know whether this will make things worse. When I initiate holding hands or something like that, sometimes she responds really well, and sometimes it's the 'limp fish' treatment. She has stopped initiating any sort of contact now herself. Should I completely leave off then? I don't want to crowd her, but want her to know that I care and can give her the support she needs. Cheers
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