dartanyan Posted July 23, 2008 Posted July 23, 2008 Kamille, I couldn't help be intrigued by your story and hope you don't mind sharing. What is it that made it so great? Was it the connection you had with him, or stuff he did physically? I ask as a guy who would love nothing more than to make women feel like this guy did to you. Any pointers/tips for what a guy can do to give others and experience like yours?
imbewildered Posted July 23, 2008 Posted July 23, 2008 If he answers friendly to a call, then because he things he might "get some". Just my opinion. If he wanted to "get some" , he would have maintained the connection. THis guy is not interested any longer for his own reasons. I works like this with us men - If we are interested in seeing you again we will build the connection. If not, we will ignore you.
imbewildered Posted July 23, 2008 Posted July 23, 2008 Kamille, I couldn't help be intrigued by your story and hope you don't mind sharing. What is it that made it so great? Was it the connection you had with him, or stuff he did physically? I ask as a guy who would love nothing more than to make women feel like this guy did to you. Any pointers/tips for what a guy can do to give others and experience like yours? You would be better off asking a guy who was popular with women. HE knows the answers to your questions.
imbewildered Posted July 23, 2008 Posted July 23, 2008 I'd say I'm interested in getting to know him more - but I have no idea if I do want more. We really hardly know each other. HUh ? His disconnection has made the decision for you. He is not interested in "more" of anything.. If he wanted to have sex with you again he would have acted in ways that made that unmistakeably clear. He has moved on . Keep your memories of the event purely as a pleasant distraction ,and an ego boost.
Balthazar Posted July 23, 2008 Posted July 23, 2008 Guys that really know how to shag are so rare! Yes, tis true. We are the rarest breed Jilly.
Jilly Bean Posted July 23, 2008 Posted July 23, 2008 Yes, tis true. We are the rarest breed Jilly. Why am I not surprised? My image of you continues to get brighter... K - I had a wild one nighter on the beaches of Mexico last year. The guy was not my physical type, but Good Lord - he gave me three O's in the span of an hour. We tried to recreate the magic once back home, but ut uh. Something about shagging under the stars, the smashing waves...sigh. BIG difference, is that I didn't particularly like this guy much more than his physical skill set. I say you go into it expecting NOTHING. Then you will surely come away with something...
Author Kamille Posted July 23, 2008 Author Posted July 23, 2008 Ooh yes a debate on one of my threads! So rare. To Dartanyan, I have to agree with Imbewildered on you would be better off asking some guy you know is good in bed what his tricks are. This guy here basically made it all about my pleasure, but also knew his way around my body way better then I do - even after years of experimenting on myself. He was very talented with his hands in perticular. He also made me feel very comfortable and we laughed a lot. I could argue with all of you people who like to point out that he isn't interested and who like to point out what I did wrong or what not, but I just don't feel like it. He emailed two days ago and he just called, unprompted this time. I don't expect die-hard devotion after an encounter on a hiking trail but we both agree the evening was magical (his words). We are going to meet when I go to his area. And Jilly, we actually joked about the fact that the first encounter will be hard to beat. I guess I just don't feel like over-dramatizing this in any way. Whatever happens happens.
Jilly Bean Posted July 23, 2008 Posted July 23, 2008 And Jilly, we actually joked about the fact that the first encounter will be hard to beat. But not implausible...
Author Kamille Posted July 23, 2008 Author Posted July 23, 2008 But not implausible... He promised to show me all the best hiking trails in his area
Jilly Bean Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 He promised to show me all the best hiking trails in his area Bring a blanket...
Author Kamille Posted July 24, 2008 Author Posted July 24, 2008 Bring a blanket... ... and I won't forget the knee pads
Jilly Bean Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 ... and I won't forget the knee pads I'd let him tea bag you, but that's me, K...
dartanyan Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 To Dartanyan, I have to agree with Imbewildered on you would be better off asking some guy you know is good in bed what his tricks are. This guy here basically made it all about my pleasure, but also knew his way around my body way better then I do - even after years of experimenting on myself. He was very talented with his hands in perticular. He also made me feel very comfortable and we laughed a lot. Thank you -well here's an open call to guys (or ladies) who can give some concrete suggestions. I am really quite determined on this and need help. There must be some specific things one can do to get to 'best ever' category? Is it possible to achieve when you're with someone for a while (i.e. not a first encounter on a trail as in your case)?
Ariadne Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 We really had fun together, ended up sleeping together (under the stars it was amazing).. On a sidenote, the sex was amazing. Best I ever had by a long mile. You did??? Omg, all the things that I'm missing... Well, at least you had fun. And he is too far, imagine making a LDR with that guy that you just met. But he might still get in touch. Don't despair.
D-Lish Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 Thank you -well here's an open call to guys (or ladies) who can give some concrete suggestions. I am really quite determined on this and need help. There must be some specific things one can do to get to 'best ever' category? Is it possible to achieve when you're with someone for a while (i.e. not a first encounter on a trail as in your case)? I still remember the ONE guy who gave me the BEST oral of my life... He was so amazing it was like I was doing it to myself...lol. I'll never forget him... (Even though he was a f'in tool). But, often- having an amazing shag has to do with chemistry. SOmetimes people just "fit" and sometimes they don't.
Author Kamille Posted July 24, 2008 Author Posted July 24, 2008 yeah there might be something to chemestry between people. I swear, this guy smelled delicious. I still remember his scent actually. Enticing. But he was relentless in his quest to make me orgasm. I stopped counting at 8 and they would last for longer then ever. Like 30 seconds, which for me is a lot. There was a point where I was saying : "dude, I can't possibly have another orgasms" and within seconds he had me going again. Oh! And I had my first nipple stimulation orgasm (I'm sure there's a better term for that). I consider I'm pretty open to my own sexuality, but I learned a lot about my own body with this guy. Like seriously, I'm picturing this guy with his high school sweet heart and one of those sex manuals that were popular in Quebec at the time just playing with each other's bodies (he told me he learned about female sexuality in a little corner of his high school library with his high school sweetheart...). And I wouldn't put the kama sutra past this guy.
Jilly Bean Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 But he was relentless in his quest to make me orgasm. I stopped counting at 8 and they would last for longer then ever. Like 30 seconds, which for me is a lot. There was a point where I was saying : "dude, I can't possibly have another orgasms" and within seconds he had me going again. Oh! And I had my first nipple stimulation orgasm (I'm sure there's a better term for that). I consider I'm pretty open to my own sexuality, but I learned a lot about my own body with this guy. Like seriously, I'm picturing this guy with his high school sweet heart and one of those sex manuals that were popular in Quebec at the time just playing with each other's bodies (he told me he learned about female sexuality in a little corner of his high school library with his high school sweetheart...). And I wouldn't put the kama sutra past this guy. OMG! Please take video next time you see him, K. Actually, my cop is that kind of lover. Starting with the kisses that get you soaking, and ending with not being able to breathe or walk. Dayum. Like I said - SO rare. I'd keep on him!
Author Kamille Posted July 24, 2008 Author Posted July 24, 2008 OMG! Please take video next time you see him, K. Actually, my cop is that kind of lover. Starting with the kisses that get you soaking, and ending with not being able to breathe or walk. Dayum. Like I said - SO rare. I'd keep on him! Cheers girl! you hear me. Why mess a good thing like this with romance?
D-Lish Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 Yeah, I think I have to stop dating 20 year olds... They can't pronounce kama sutra. But the best oral I had was from a 22 year old. I was just stunned for a good 2 hours after.... paralysed. I swear- I wouldn't have stayed with him so long if he wasn't so adept in the oral arts. He had a degree from the University of Vagina.... Kami- He lives in the big Q right now? Is he a frenchie? Frenchies know how to "love".
Ariadne Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 Cheers girl! you hear me. Why mess a good thing like this with romance? Hey, It must be true what they say about French guys being the best lovers. I read a poll once, that guy must have it in his blood or some. Cool.
Author Kamille Posted July 24, 2008 Author Posted July 24, 2008 Yeah, I think I have to stop dating 20 year olds... They can't pronounce kama sutra. But the best oral I had was from a 22 year old. I was just stunned for a good 2 hours after.... paralysed. I swear- I wouldn't have stayed with him so long if he wasn't so adept in the oral arts. He had a degree from the University of Vagina.... Kami- He lives in the big Q right now? Is he a frenchie? Frenchies know how to "love". Yeah so far Quebecers get a great grade from me. The best part? They're usually great kissers. sorry for stereotyping.
Author Kamille Posted July 24, 2008 Author Posted July 24, 2008 Hey, It must be true what they say about French guys being the best lovers. I read a poll once, that guy must have it in his blood or some. Cool. it could be the way they're educated, says the sociologist. Whatever it is, I want more, s'il vous plaît.
Ariadne Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 it could be the way they're educated, says the sociologist. Whatever it is, I want more, s'il vous plaît. Nah, you can't educate that. Is in the blood.
Jilly Bean Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 I had a french lover once. I just found it so funny when he would orgasm and scream out, "Mon Dieu!" But yes, the Frenchmen DO understand the fine art of oral. God, we're a bunch of horny chicks tonight! lol
Author Kamille Posted July 24, 2008 Author Posted July 24, 2008 Nah, you can't educate that. Is in the blood. hmmm, I'm willing to dedicate myself to a study of the question: what is it that makes latin men such great lovers? Is it in the blood? Is it social? Hours of experimentation I am willing to spend on the question. I will do what must be done, all in the name of research.
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