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New Crush, am I screwing this up?


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I have a crush on someone new. He was from the dual situation I wrote about the other week. I gave him a ring on Friday night as I was in his neighborhood. He came by where I was and we chatted for a bit. Afterwards we went over to his house. And NOTHING HAPPENED! I am a respectable girl! He was pretty lit by the time he got to the bar where I was. We sat up and talked for a long time. At the end of the night, we ended it with a kiss. And he did touch my ass during the kiss.

 

The next day I text messaged him asking what he was doing that day. He said he was going to the movies. I texted back and said "Ok, have fun". Today, I was in his neighborhood and I gave him a ring. I went by his house and he took a break from mowing the lawn, we chatted for a while. Then I left him to go back and finish mowing the lawn. We ended it with a hug. No kiss. I went back to the event and met up with a few other friends.

 

Am I doing the right thing? Should I be playing hard to get? Or should I back off?

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It seems to be that you ALWAYS are chasing and pursuing guys. How about letting them be the boy for a change, and letting them chase YOU? I think you might see better results if you change the dynamic a bit. :)

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I don't think it's about who is chasing who.

 

I think it's about how much you turn him on when he's sober and when he's "lit up"....

 

Red flag.

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Excellent point, MJR. I will back off and hopefully see him when he's sober sometime.

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hopefully see him when he's sober sometime.

 

Let him call you, and make the effort. If he is into you and interested, he'll call.

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