thebrunette Posted July 20, 2008 Posted July 20, 2008 I have just started dating a guy and he seems really keen on me and i like him so far, we have been ona few dates and he has already asked me to go on three, yes three, more. I am trying not to get freaked out because they are events that he is asking me to so obviously he needs to know if i can attend or not for tickets etc. Anyway, i found out that he has quite a sexual history thanks to the wonders of myspace and friend circles, and if i am honest, i am not particularly happy about this, although i think- whatever he got up to before he met me is none of my business. I'd be lying if i said it didn't make me wary though. I am also not 100% sure but i think he seems to like younger girls (legal but still young) based on what i have found out about his sexual past. He is a bit older than me (early thirties) but i am in my twenties, but look very young. I am starting to wonder if this is forming his attraction to me? He told me 'you look very good for your age'. I am only 23 so i found this comment strange, I then discover he thinks i look younger than i am. Either he is a nice guy and everything is alright and i am being paranoid, or i have a reason to be a bit worried. I don't want to end up with anyone i feel freaked out by and feel it is too early to ask him about his sexual history. I know that he wants to sleep with me but i am not doing yet because i want to get to know him and see if we work. Does anyone else ever become wary by people with 'interesting' sexual past? I don't feel threatened or jealous, we all have a past, i am just wary about becoming the next notch on the bedpost...
Arise_Serpentor Posted July 20, 2008 Posted July 20, 2008 You'll be a notch in the bed post! Don't you worry about that! That guy has the cyber network NAILED DOWN! THREE DATES? AHEAD OF TIME? What guy does that, seriously? One at a time isn't good enough? What he is doing is organize his SCHEDULE OF WOMEN!!! Watch out he doesn't give you the gift that keeps on giving!!! (rhymes with hair piece!)
nmail Posted July 20, 2008 Posted July 20, 2008 Hi You are not clear with your thoughts, will you give more information. So I can help you out in this matter.
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