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Is he interested? Or just flirting?


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patronized this shop ytd & there's this sales guy who served me and my friend..

He did and said a couple of flirty things to me..

And he was the first one tht did these things to me, I don't know how to react or say.

1stly, he asked me and my friends our age.

After we told him, he replied "Oh! Then I'm old enuf to take u out already"

I went What?

Then he said, "You don't want to go out with me?"

Ok, so I didnt say anything further.

2ndly, I wanted this item from the shop, and coincedentally, that item was hanging right above, behind me.

But where I was standing.. I was already @ the corner.

So he reached over me and said "Hohoho, u're cornered now. I'll take my time.."

Leaned so close to me tht I can't breathe..

And I also don't know wht to do.

I dont know wht came over me, but thinking back..I shud have THOT of an escape route.

And yea I dont deny tht I hate those flirtings.

But I am really not sure if he is really interested or he's just a flirt.. Any comments? Need help with comments. So pls give me some if you read this.

Thanks alot. (: Will appreciate it.

<3

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It slightly depends on what country you are in for social norms. If yer in america, I would say that was definately interest and he wants to take you out. What I can't tell is if you are in any way interested from your post. If not, I would make that clear you aren't interested (make up a bf, act cold, kiss your friend :p) If you are interested, go back and tell him to stop beating around the bush and ask you out. He'd appreciate the directness.

 

If you aren't in america, I would have to say it's a little fuzzier, but you might be better off asking a local. Some cultures see flirting differently.

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