chantalogy Posted July 20, 2008 Posted July 20, 2008 patronized this shop ytd & there's this sales guy who served me and my friend.. He did and said a couple of flirty things to me.. And he was the first one tht did these things to me, I don't know how to react or say. 1stly, he asked me and my friends our age. After we told him, he replied "Oh! Then I'm old enuf to take u out already" I went What? Then he said, "You don't want to go out with me?" Ok, so I didnt say anything further. 2ndly, I wanted this item from the shop, and coincedentally, that item was hanging right above, behind me. But where I was standing.. I was already @ the corner. So he reached over me and said "Hohoho, u're cornered now. I'll take my time.." Leaned so close to me tht I can't breathe.. And I also don't know wht to do. I dont know wht came over me, but thinking back..I shud have THOT of an escape route. And yea I dont deny tht I hate those flirtings. But I am really not sure if he is really interested or he's just a flirt.. Any comments? Need help with comments. So pls give me some if you read this. Thanks alot. (: Will appreciate it. <3
Keridan Posted July 20, 2008 Posted July 20, 2008 It slightly depends on what country you are in for social norms. If yer in america, I would say that was definately interest and he wants to take you out. What I can't tell is if you are in any way interested from your post. If not, I would make that clear you aren't interested (make up a bf, act cold, kiss your friend ) If you are interested, go back and tell him to stop beating around the bush and ask you out. He'd appreciate the directness. If you aren't in america, I would have to say it's a little fuzzier, but you might be better off asking a local. Some cultures see flirting differently.
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