My gf's breaking up with me again

[indohouze]

THis stuff has been happening on off periodically throughout our 9 month relationship. Anyways story has it this saturday(im in aust so its sunday now) i was meant to go out with my gf to someone and spend the night with her wether that be drinking or w/e and end up in a hotel with her(about 3 hours away from where i live). Anyways i told her through the week i couldn't afford it this weekend because i had to knock of some massive bills and throughout the whole week she's given my absolute ****, she is talking about how booring the weekend willl be, having a go how poor i am(im usually loaded everyweek just i got swamped with a thousand bills and her wage is 1/2 of mine weekly) and all this antagonizing stuff. Anyways i usually pick her up from work on a friday and take her home and when i dropped her off she asked what are we gonna do tommorow and i wasn;t sure and she was like ok we'll think of something bye love u etc.

 

THen on saturday she messages me and asks what are we doing tonight, really at this point i have no idea and i didnt have money to do much and i told her i was unsure. Went through a few hours of messaging each other trying to work out what we were gonna do it ends up 8:00 and she goes just come down and pick me up and we'll figure something out then (she lives approx 1/2 hour away from me)

 

I end up picking her up and she's in a sour mood to start of with i kiss her on the cheek and say what would you like to do and she snaps and says bla blah blah doesn't really answer the question. So i decide to go for a drive around the city and after about 15 minutes she's like what are we gonna do you shoulda just stayed at home and not wasted your time blah blah. I end up pulling over in a car park and anything i pretty much said she was gonna fire up at me(woman you should know that their can be legitimate reasons for wanting to hit a woman this is one im sorry not saying its right but it gets to you !!! im not a hitter though )

then she says WELL ARE YOU JUST GONNA SIT HERE SILENT, omg!!! I explained to her i don't know what to do i'd like to do something with you but i don't know what we can do(in the non sexual expression) She snaps and says you know what take me home you wasted your time blah blah then hit her leg like a child being told they aren't having candy.

 

I take her home and she says bye and i say good night(usually she sez i love you .... usually i do to but every time shes in a ****ty mood and i say that she says YER W/E)

 

1 minute after i leave she asks if i wanna break up with her, 30 seconds after that she writes i take that as a yes and because im driving its not like im in a position to write a essay back to her on my phone. I write back i don't want to i love you etc etc and im sorry i couldn't afford to go out but i love and care for you and i wanted to come see you tonight. She writes back aload of bs then says we don't even have anything in common, im thinking to myself then it doesn't take 9 months for you to come to that conclusion and that she's just writing this for something to argue about to make it feel easier for her like ive done something wrong.

 

Now if anybody actually did read all this and understood it At what point have i done anything wrong and mind you she uses the 'lets break up' card every time shes in a pissed off mood because she thinks im gonna sit and beg her like a show of dominance

[Lonelystar]

Personally, took me it looks like you did nothing wrong. Maybe you guys could of planned a movie night at home or something. Maybe she is in a bad mood for some other reason, and took it out on you. You guys should sit down, and have a civil conversation and try to find out the root of the problem. To get mad, because you don't have any money this week is a silly reason to breakup. I wish you the best of luck, and I hope you can work it out.

[indohouze]

shes always in a ****ty mood over something lol, i sware i have foresee this everytime it happens lol

[indohouze]

is it that woman always wanna argue about something and they are always right? I mean i really think i can speak honestly a guy never wants a arguement with their woman, and i definately don't i just wanna love her