sweet_tea12 Posted July 19, 2008 Posted July 19, 2008 Okay so I met a guy, he was really cocky the first time I met him, and the second time he came around he was really nervous. I can tell he's a little socially awkward, but whatever. I'm in college and he's out working in banking,. I met this guy at a baseball game through another friend, so it started out innocent enough. we were in the process of going out with a group of friends moving towards dating when he made a dirty joke. I know it sounds stupid. But I'm not into the booty call, and that joke made it sound like that is what he is all about. So I called things off and told him I wasn't that type of girl, and he wrote me this huge apology blah blah. I'm sounding a little skeptic here. I don't want to be with a guy who's just looking to mess around, I know that's most guys my age, but I stick to my guns. So am I being too harsh by not giving this guy a second chance because of a trashy joke?
MadDog Posted July 20, 2008 Posted July 20, 2008 The issue wasn't whether he made a trashy joke but that you believe it revealed his intentions with you. If you really believe he's in it for the sex, then why waste your time? If you think he's an ok guy and just made a mistake, then cut him some slack. Pretty simple. MD
Author sweet_tea12 Posted July 20, 2008 Author Posted July 20, 2008 okay thanks. this is pretty common sense stuff, don't get an attitude about it now.
MJR Posted July 20, 2008 Posted July 20, 2008 Sounds to me like a guy who just read a seduction book and is trying to apply it...with horrible results. I'm all in on the odds that he's a nice guy tired of being a doormat.
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