kellygirl67 Posted July 19, 2008 Posted July 19, 2008 Hey everyone! I am new to this site, and i am so glad i found it! I need insight, advice, and reassurance about starting a LDR! I mey a guy on an online dating site about 3 weeks ago. We e-mailed back and forth, and after about a week, he asked me if he could text me. I gave him my number, and he texted me several times a day just to say "hi" and i did the same. Then, just this week, it became more frequent. He wanted to hear my voice, so i agreed for him to call me. We talked the first time, and he was telling me that he felt some kind of connection to me that he could not explain! Now, i am a level headed person. I don't jump too quick into things and always use caution...but i have to admit, when we talked, i felt like i had known him for a long time! He asked me last night if I would consider and exclusive relationship with him via text, chat, phone, etc! And, he wants me to meet him as soon as we can arrange it. I live in NC and he lives in Washington State, so we are literally across the US from each other! But when we talk, chat, etc. , I feel as if he's right next door to me! The problem is, I am a nursing student and currently have 13 months left of school. He is already talking about me moving to Wash. after I finish school. It seems to me that things are moving way too fast and I find it real hard to believe that he could have such feelings for me so soon. Is this really possible? Are we kidding ourselves? Or could this actually be one of those "fate" kind of things that i've always heard about?? I don't know how to proceed with this and need some good advice! Please someone help me with this because I don't know what to do!!!!
Eilonwy Posted July 19, 2008 Posted July 19, 2008 Hmm, I'd be careful. Three weeks is a short time. Very short. May I ask what kind of dating site it was? If it was something free/cheap, I'd be extra careful... since you're more likely to meet "weirdos" there. Of course, I don't mean to say he is one of them... just be careful, because you certainly cannot be certain yet. I think I would try to keep the relationship via phone and internet for a while. With webcam, if at all possible.
SaraLovesHerAndy Posted July 24, 2008 Posted July 24, 2008 i agree with eilonwy to a certain degree, u always have to be careful when meeting people off the net but wot u described was exactly the same as me n my boyfriend we fell for eachother VERY quickly but at the same time i was cautious about it. but me n my bf have been together over a year now and hes the best guys ive ever been with. Like eilonwy said stick to just phone, web chats for now, with cam if possible and take it slowly. If your cautious and careful then it cud end up to b something really great! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx:)
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