Lucky555 Posted July 19, 2008 Posted July 19, 2008 My problem was that i was not meeting anyone! So i am now going to start working at a job that involves a lot of people! I am working in customer service and there are more places surrounding where i work! This hopefully will solve my dating issue or the lack of meeting guys. When i told my friend this place she made a comment like "only the guys with their girlfriends or wives" you will see. I am like what! Seriously i know tons of single ppl hang out where i work or along the vicinity that are single. I thought she was a bit harsh. However, shes my friend but shes currently going after a guy who has a girlfriend and i think thats dumb but shes my friend regardless. Any guy that would cheat on his current gf would cheat on her. Another things is the guy that i previously was seeing..hes ex is in therapy now! its a grapevine thing is how i know but this is the issues that he was probably referring to. When i am alone i think of him...i need to meet new ppl and develop a stronger social network! My friends are all busy with school this summer or their jobs or they live far away! its hard to just go out and have a good time with out them around. I have a job now and i am working as much as i can! So whats your input on these things? 1. my new job 2. my friend a nay sayer and wants a guy that is attached 3. The ex gf of a guy I WAS seeing being in therapy now. Like gosh i couldn't imagine being in a relationship with him now if this girl kept trying to get with him and nag him about her problems..this was part of the reason its over with him. It disturbs me because when i met him he was really sad and sickly looking almost. when we were together it was awesome but obviously i am still lingering on this issue but i am staying away from him so I can like move on to someone better which i cant wait for it to happen already!
Angel1111 Posted July 19, 2008 Posted July 19, 2008 I think it sounds like a great strategy! I have very limited ways of meeting guys, too, and it gets frustrating. I think what you're doing has a lot of potential. Don't worry about what your friend says, she's just being negative and probably thinks she's doing you a favor by saying what she did. As far as your ex is concerned, maybe he's becoming aware that his problems in life may actually have something to do with him. Who knows? It's probably a good thing he's there. Maybe his break-up with you was a wake-up call.
Author Lucky555 Posted July 19, 2008 Author Posted July 19, 2008 well hes not in therapy his ex girlfriend is in therapy and i am puzzled by this cuz he said that she had a lot of issues and was not done with him...and thats why he couldnt move forward... I have been out of his life though...a casual sentence here and there nothing heavy
Green Posted July 19, 2008 Posted July 19, 2008 As a single guy I'm always trying to meet nice girls and though I get kind of shy if I think I'm getting the signals I'll ask a girl for her number if she was helping me out but seemed a little extra friendly
Author Lucky555 Posted July 20, 2008 Author Posted July 20, 2008 KMT, those are words of encouragement thanks! I will keep that in mind and be myself!
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