ioncebelieved Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 Just curious, I was not thrilled how my ex did things and the cowardly way she ended things (In her mind) since I had let on that I was not happy all through this year with periods of NC. It was a LDR of 360 miles one way away. She did it on the phone and I at least deserved an in person split. I am ALMOST 3 WEEKS NC now and I am holding strong, for a change. The phone conversation lasted about 20 minutes and I got the I will always love you, I will miss you and you are soooooo special to me. Who out there got themselves a cowardly goodbye or dumped and WHO ALL HEARD THE I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU?
kizik Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 IOB, I seem to remember making a thread on this yesterday (kind of). Except mine was like, "Who has said these things" themselves. Anyway, she actually never said that to me. Just goes to show her heartlessness. Congratulations on holding strong my friend, you are such a fun and optimistic dude. You rock!
Author ioncebelieved Posted July 17, 2008 Author Posted July 17, 2008 Hey K, I remember the thread and even responded to it. It may even be similar, which a lot of post are on here, I guess. I guess I just want to hear others that got the Coward shaft w/ the meaningless words.
kizik Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 Good stuff, hope you don't think I'm an as*hole. Hey, be glad she said that to you, even if the R is dead now!
Author ioncebelieved Posted July 17, 2008 Author Posted July 17, 2008 Good stuff, hope you don't think I'm an as*hole. Hey, be glad she said that to you, even if the R is dead now! Man NO WAY you being an a hole!! We are all here to help each other and share ideas. I just think her saying that was like a consolation prize in her mind, or a let down easy albeit in my mind it was WEAK & COWARDLY!!!
sultry33 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 op.. yes i got both the cowards way of leaving.. an the meaninless words! we went to bed together at 1-30am.. 3am i woke dreaming he was leaving.. he had left:eek: he did leave me a note... after a few weeks of limited contact we met up.. did this a few times the last time some 4 weeks back he repeated to me that "he will always love me more, never forget that" wtf seriously how ? for me if i loved someone i would not let them go.. i couldnt:confused: yea it sucks big time x
tealeafbud Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 i have to admit, i was cowardly in my breakup. I basically blindsided her. she didn't see it coming, but I really didn't know what other alternative there was. You know, there was no period of me being "withdrawn" from her. No infidelity, no major fighting. Just my own feelings not being in love with her. but i never told her I'd always love her.. That came up in some conversations after our breakup, maybe thinking we'd be friends
Author ioncebelieved Posted July 17, 2008 Author Posted July 17, 2008 for me if i loved someone i would not let them go.. i couldnt:confused: yea it sucks big time x My sentiments Exactly!!!!
sultry33 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 in the past i never told any exs that i still loved them, always will blar blar bull ****... i did say i care about them.. hope they be happy.. but never ever that.
wareagle Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 I was at her house, she was telling me that we are two different people, to much has happened, we have nothing in common, so on and so forth, I asked her if there was anyone else, and she said NO!!! HaHa, well I leave her house knowing that it is probably over, but haven't been told that yet! I'm about 10 minutes into my hr drive home when she texts me, I CAN"T DO THIS ANYMORE!!! Why couldn't she just have manned up earlier and ended it face to face? COWARD!!!!! So I say OK, and that is the last time I spoke to her, and not to my suprise I find out a day later she is flirting with someone we work with! AND now she is pregnant and maryying this guy hahahahaha! So like two or three weeks after she **** on me, she sends me this text> I hope you find happiness, I believe that there is someone out there for everyone, it just wasn't us! I hope you find that someone! Ha ha four months out now and I can actually remember what she texted I guess that will stay in my head forever!!
kizik Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 AND now she is pregnant and maryying this guy hahahahaha! So like two or three weeks after she **** on me, she sends me this text> I hope you find happiness, I believe that there is someone out there for everyone, it just wasn't us! I hope you find that someone! Your ex is super white trash, war. Thank Christ you got outta that one. She is damaged goods. Let her be pregnant and barefoot in the kitchen all day while John Deere does roofing in the hot Indiana summer sun.
wareagle Posted July 18, 2008 Posted July 18, 2008 Ha Ha Kiz, to funny, yea she went totally opposite of me and her ex husband this time, this guy is four years younger than her, taller and fatter than us, and he just got laid off from our place of employment, haha I don't see this lasting very long!!! She will use and abuse this 21 year old till she gets tired of him, and then move on to husband #3 and end up like her mom married and divorced 5 times before she hit 40! I've said it before, and I will keep saying It I DODGED 44 MAGNUM ON THIS ONE!!! LOL!!!
Author ioncebelieved Posted July 18, 2008 Author Posted July 18, 2008 I've said it before, and I will keep saying It I DODGED 44 MAGNUM ON THIS ONE!!! LOL!!! No brother man.... YOU FREAKING DODGED A 50 CALIBER BULLET HERE!!!
beautifullove Posted July 18, 2008 Posted July 18, 2008 I heard it today, but I think I was able to flip the script a little. I'll soon find out though. And just for the record, your post made me laugh for the first time in days, so thanks.
Nevermind Posted July 18, 2008 Posted July 18, 2008 The ex told me how I would always be in his heart, before he also just again vented how terrible I had been and how I deserved every bit of pain. Does that count?
justaman99 Posted July 18, 2008 Posted July 18, 2008 Who out there got themselves a cowardly goodbye or dumped and WHO ALL HEARD THE I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU? Yeah I got the "phone call". Couldn't do it in person. She didn't say I will always love you but she did say you are an incredible guy. If I was so great then why was she letting me go? I do believe that a relationship can end even though there's love in it. It takes more than love for a relationship to work so I think the "I will always love you" can have some truth to it.
Peter_pan Posted July 18, 2008 Posted July 18, 2008 i got it it in an email. also the one that told me about her new guy, oh but dont worry quote "its nothing serious" i wasnt even in the country when she told me
foolednm Posted July 18, 2008 Posted July 18, 2008 Yeah I got the "phone call". Couldn't do it in person. She didn't say I will always love you but she did say you are an incredible guy. If I was so great then why was she letting me go? I do believe that a relationship can end even though there's love in it. It takes more than love for a relationship to work so I think the "I will always love you" can have some truth to it. I was the idiot that kept telling her how much I loved her and wanted her and that I would love her for the rest of my life. Meanwhile, she just looks across her desk to me, very smug and probably laughing at me inside, and she just said "I moved on and I am very happy and I just wish you would be happy for me." WTF??? I just poured my heart out to her and that's all she has to say?? I just told her I loved her and would love her forever!! Damn, what the hell do I see in her after all?? Yeah, the sex was the absolute best and we were SOOO compatible in that area and she loved for me to hold her and cuddle with her all night. But now she's spreading her legs for someone else. So, what is the answer? She walked all over me and treated me like sh*t during the months before, during and after the breakup. The RIGHT thing to do is just stay the f*ck away!! Save myself from any more torture. She is a c*nt!! I don't need that in my life. I'm too old for this crap!!
Peter_pan Posted July 18, 2008 Posted July 18, 2008 So, what is the answer? She walked all over me and treated me like sh*t during the months before, during and after the breakup. The RIGHT thing to do is just stay the f*ck away!! Save myself from any more torture. She is a c*nt!! I don't need that in my life. I'm too old for this crap!! a men to that bro
roghornio Posted July 18, 2008 Posted July 18, 2008 I got a “I think your perfect”. Hmm… really???? wait a moment, so why.... not worth even thinking about down that one lol
PhoenixFromTheFlames Posted July 18, 2008 Posted July 18, 2008 Don't you just love the cowardly exit! I got the 'phonecall'. I even paid for the phonecall! Lucky me. I got some classic lines too, my fave was: 'you're amazing, I really wish I could love you, I really wanted to and really tried to'. What the hell? The mind boggles where he thought that one up! He even seemed to think i'd find some comfort in this. Not convinced he thought that one through properly, it translates to 'you're un-lovable, there is something wrong with you'. Grr!
Peter_pan Posted July 18, 2008 Posted July 18, 2008 I got a “I think your perfect”. Hmm… really???? wait a moment, so why.... not worth even thinking about down that one lol lol do these people even think. or wake up when they get out of bed lol
roghornio Posted July 18, 2008 Posted July 18, 2008 lol do these people even think. or wake up when they get out of bed lol Hah I know. Well the thing was that I kind of did the dumping, I thought she was going to do it so I got in first… And that was her response. You can try and work out what these things mean, but in the end its utterly useless. Every time ive dumped someone ive ran a mile, never got in touch with them ever again and certainly never said anything that might make them think otherwise. So why other people choose to say it I will never know.
Peter_pan Posted July 18, 2008 Posted July 18, 2008 Hah I know. I thought she was going to do it so I got in first… lol legend !! wish i could have got in there first to now. but at the time i obviously wanted to keep her. i think really she has done me a favour
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