sultry33 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 well i have been doing great.. then today damn postie brings me mail.. yeah i know its his job:D for my cat... c/o me.. how sweet.. it was my cats documents, but the post it note signed with a x i thought i was ok.. but one letter which i knew instantly was from him sent my tummy into butterfly mode.. The sweet guy i had coffee/dinner with yesterday had nowhere near getting that effect from him.. an my ex well one damn letter. I have now broken non contact and yes i deserve a mighty kick in the ass.. but i have manners.. so i just sent a very simple email Hi, thank you for sending Nismo's documents. hope all is good with you julie:D do you think i did ok? our cat was like our baby..
carrie3107 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 Yeah i think thats ok cause your just [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]acknowledging that he sent you something important.[/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]Still on nc havent heard off him since Sunday. My booty is no longer his call :bunny:[/sIZE][/FONT]
Author sultry33 Posted July 17, 2008 Author Posted July 17, 2008 Yeah i think thats ok cause your just [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]acknowledging that he sent you something important.[/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]Still on nc havent heard off him since Sunday. My booty is no longer his call :bunny:[/sIZE][/FONT] good for you carrie, keep shaking it in the opposite direction yea i didnt like send him hows u? or anything.. so im thinking it was ok strange how it arrived after a 1st proper date though.. life huh.. well im ok now.. nearly the weekend again woo hoo:love:
northstar1 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 well i have been doing great.. then today damn postie brings me mail.. yeah i know its his job:D for my cat... c/o me.. how sweet.. it was my cats documents, but the post it note signed with a x i thought i was ok.. but one letter which i knew instantly was from him sent my tummy into butterfly mode.. The sweet guy i had coffee/dinner with yesterday had nowhere near getting that effect from him.. an my ex well one damn letter. I have now broken non contact and yes i deserve a mighty kick in the ass.. but i have manners.. so i just sent a very simple email Hi, thank you for sending Nismo's documents. hope all is good with you julie:D do you think i did ok? our cat was like our baby.. That seems perfectly fine - and it's quite mature to send back an acknowledgement, w/o being all chummy in the note Do you expect he'll respond?
Author sultry33 Posted July 17, 2008 Author Posted July 17, 2008 That seems perfectly fine - and it's quite mature to send back an acknowledgement, w/o being all chummy in the note Do you expect he'll respond? Nope knowing him he wont lol he is a very strong guy.. used to cry though so he does have feelings honest.. just we broke up for the right reasons.. love does not conquer all.. even though deep down i wish it did. just thinking of him replying is bringing the butterflies.. how come with some guys it just happens that way an not others.. im hoping he does reply.. but hoping he wont im so confused but im not going feel bad x
northstar1 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 Nope knowing him he wont lol he is a very strong guy.. used to cry though so he does have feelings honest.. just we broke up for the right reasons.. love does not conquer all.. even though deep down i wish it did. just thinking of him replying is bringing the butterflies.. how come with some guys it just happens that way an not others.. im hoping he does reply.. but hoping he wont im so confused but im not going feel bad x I wish I knew. I know what you mean about want/not wanting a reply. Trust me on that. Sent you a PM, since I have a simliar story to yours
carrie3107 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 Yeah pretty good, apart from hayfever playing up yesturday!!! This will be the 4th time of nc for us and hopefully the last if he wants to text then fine then ill answer but im not going out my way to text him. Yeah its strange how they have an idea when you'e been on a date cause the ex texted me after id met someone and was going to go out with them again. I will be honest when i was with the ex last week (when we were driving about) that i did have some thoughts of this new lad... Isnt it odd. When i was out on the date with the new lad i didnt compare him with the ex cause there was nothing to compare, but when i was with the ex i was comparing him to the new one if you know what i mean. Life is so odd....
Author sultry33 Posted July 17, 2008 Author Posted July 17, 2008 Yeah pretty good, apart from hayfever playing up yesturday!!! This will be the 4th time of nc for us and hopefully the last if he wants to text then fine then ill answer but im not going out my way to text him. Yeah its strange how they have an idea when you'e been on a date cause the ex texted me after id met someone and was going to go out with them again. I will be honest when i was with the ex last week (when we were driving about) that i did have some thoughts of this new lad... Isnt it odd. When i was out on the date with the new lad i didnt compare him with the ex cause there was nothing to compare, but when i was with the ex i was comparing him to the new one if you know what i mean. Life is so odd.... yeah i know exactly what u mean.. must be honest i did compare.. and i felt bad about it.. i even used a quote my ex uses lol im going find it hard to meet a guy that will have the same effect on me or more than my ex did.. think i have to face that reality.. hold strong carrie.. im a firm believer that if its meant to be it will;) x
Author sultry33 Posted July 17, 2008 Author Posted July 17, 2008 I wish I knew. I know what you mean about want/not wanting a reply. Trust me on that. Sent you a PM, since I have a simliar story to yours hey your my first pm.. replied cannot always say all on here.. eyes an all
carrie3107 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 If im honest im a bit scared of not finding someone else, (in my mind i think its saying its better to but with the messing around) But guess im going to have to put my big toe in the sea (ouch its cold) lol :laugh: :laugh:
Author sultry33 Posted July 17, 2008 Author Posted July 17, 2008 If im honest im a bit scared of not finding someone else, (in my mind i think its saying its better to but with the messing around) But guess im going to have to put my big toe in the sea (ouch its cold) lol :laugh: :laugh: lol believe me there are loads of guys out there;)
carrie3107 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 Can you introduce me to them Its my birthday soon!!!! (Birthday sh@g!!!)
Author sultry33 Posted July 17, 2008 Author Posted July 17, 2008 Can you introduce me to them Its my birthday soon!!!! (Birthday sh@g!!!) lol its my birthday sunday ssshhh i give you a list.. you can pick guy 24 5ft5.. funny, likes clubbing.. attentive really great smile.. oh yeah guy 38.. funny, caring romantic.. bit full on italian.. 5ft8ish great smile too guy 28 lovely.. tall, caring.. slightly boring 6foot 3.. there are a few more.. just its my sons turn on the computer lol they are the ones in my friend only zone;) have a couple of maybes.. damn but there mine.. well if i had the chance.. there are a few more.. but its my sons turn on the comp!
carrie3107 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 Heres a question for you if the ex should text and we have a chat and he asks me over and i decline and if he asks why. Im thinking of saying im bored of this game!!!!
Author sultry33 Posted July 17, 2008 Author Posted July 17, 2008 Heres a question for you if the ex should text and we have a chat and he asks me over and i decline and if he asks why. Im thinking of saying im bored of this game!!!! just dont reply.. do nothing at all once you reply you are playing the game imo x
carrie3107 Posted July 18, 2008 Posted July 18, 2008 Im feeling a bit more relieved this morning. He hasnt texted (which im glad about cause then id have to be strong and ignore him). A sentence is sticking in my mind which he told me about when we last night and that one of his bosses told him that he had a bad attitude. Have to agree
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