thekid55 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 Long story short: Dated a girl at college for 2 months before summer started. We moved really fast and I did fall for her. We both got out of tough relationships in the winter. I was over my ex and she had me convinced she was over hers. She wouldn't accept his calls, threw away the pictures, etc. Very cold to him. Summer came and she cried in my arms before leaving since we would be 5 hours apart for the summer. She gets home and gets bombared by the ex. He tries to kiss her at some party and she pushes him away and he starts calling her names. She calls and I help her. I recommend that she not go to parties where he is at. She views this as me controlling her. Things eventually fell apart and we've been broken up for about a month. I found out last week that she went to the beach with her ex one day and they are "talking". I don't know...From what I've seen from her actions and what she has told me, she is not interested in dating him. She had me under the impression that she just wanted to be alone and get over him so she could come back to me...maybe she is just trying to see if that's dead? I dont know..But I heard this information through 2 different people so it may have been misconstrued. Recently, she has messaged me on Saturday asking me about my summer(We hadn't talked in 2 weeks)...I responded to the email on Monday and she immediately texts me on Monday asking about my summer, what I had been up to, etc....And even today, she texts me saying "Guess what I got for a grade in my summer class?"..When I didn't answer right away since I was on the phone, she called me about 5 minutes later while I was still on the phone. I called her back later on and we spoke for about 10 minutes. The conversation was kept light and without talking about the relationship. She was flirting with me at times during the conversation and jokingly poking fun at times. Reminded me of how she used to be. What do you think of the situation? School is 7 weeks away.
tranceguy Posted July 18, 2008 Posted July 18, 2008 Personally I would just be nothing more then friends. Nothing worse then going to college with a ex that you both ended on bad terms, I know from experience. If she went out of her way to hang out with her ex, there are feelings for him in one way or another, or she wouldn't of even wasted her time or energy seeing him. I'm in college, my junior year and just enjoy yourself. Date alot of women, know alot, become friends with alot etc. Being tied down in college is not worth it.
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